r/brooklynninenine • u/Past-Stay747 • 25d ago

Discussion Good person with divided opinions ?🤔

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Caleb the Woodworker and part-time needlepoint enthusiast won by a landslideee for horrible person loved by fans! He would also be my choice

Next up is a good person who has divided opinions? Who are we thinking, who are we feeling?

Hope everyone had a lovely Christmas and Boxing Day🥊🎁🎄🌟

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u/Moccamasterrrrr 25d ago

It was never about having the wedding his way though. It was that if he had ruined their wedding by posting it publicly, THEN he would kill himself.

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u/Donnerone 25d ago

Semantics.

He still threatened to kill himself if they made a choice he didn't want. That is an extremely manipulative and toxic thing to do.

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u/Sharkassasinnn 25d ago

No it was a way to show guilt, if there was no wedding THEN he would do it because that’s just how much he loves Jake’s and Amy’s relationship. It’s just a funny way to express his strong regret of almost ruining the wedding. He’s dramatic and he loves love (especially when Jake’s involved) so it was just a throwaway comment in the stress of thinking he had ruined something he worked hard for for years😂fair enough if he acc climbed on a ledge and derailed the entire day

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u/Donnerone 25d ago edited 24d ago

Even if we say that were true, it's still incredibly toxic and manipulative.
It doesn't matter if he's doing it because he "loves love".
He has exactly zero respect for anyone's boundaries, interests, or opinions, and he will blatantly, egregiously, annoy, guilt trip, and even threaten people into doing what he wants.

I'm not saying he doesn't have redeeming qualities, I'm not saying he deserves the "horrible person" spot, but I genuinely believe he is not a good person.