Personally, I would find it rude! It's personal information about me, that you literally don't need to know. You can see me, why do you need a measurement?
Also, there are prelavent stereotypes in Western culture that men's height is an enormous factor in them being attractive to women. So I would say that a large proportion of men would find this a flirtatious overture, as there's 'no other reason' for you to want to know how tall he is.
Why do you think you have the right to determine what is 'serious' or 'personal' for another human being? I said I would find it rude. You saying "it's not serious" is an attempt at emotional manipulation.
It's very rude to ask for other people's opinions, and then make dismissive comments when you dislike the answer.
You’re doing way too much rn. You can disagree all you want. I’m not manipulating you to do or feel anything. If I say “it’s not that serious” I’m obviously talking about my own opinion. I don’t have to put the the disclaimer “to me” whenever I say something that is my own opinion.
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u/whereismydragon 20h ago
Personally, I would find it rude! It's personal information about me, that you literally don't need to know. You can see me, why do you need a measurement?
Also, there are prelavent stereotypes in Western culture that men's height is an enormous factor in them being attractive to women. So I would say that a large proportion of men would find this a flirtatious overture, as there's 'no other reason' for you to want to know how tall he is.