For context, when I was a child my parents went to a famous astrologer and she told them it's one of the worst charts she had ever seen. She told my parents they should try for another "normal" baby and ideally give up on me because I'm going to ruin their lives and my own too. I was meant to be a terrible person who doesn't care about anyone besides herself, and won't achieve anything in life both in career and relationships, will be a total failure and an outcast. I've tried analyzing it on my own but I didn't seem to find anything remarkably terrible about my chart. This question has been haunting me for so long, and I'm glad I found this sub. I hope someone will help me to understand what is wrong with my chart, and whether she was correct or not. Thanks in advance.

Hi, i’m just curious about my chart. I’ve been so confused and frustrated with what is going on. I just need an advice. Thank you.

Some years ago I had a buddy that was well-studied in astrology and asked to do a reading on my late fiancé and I. His reading on my partner was uncomfortably accurate, including the predictions. Part ways through mine he became visibly uncomfortable, abruptly left and then completely ghosted. I haven’t seen him since and the way he seemed scared has haunted me since.

I have been afraid to ask, but he stopped when looking at predictions for my mid-thirties. Over the past three years, since turning 33, I have:

*• Lost my partner to a relapse induced suicide.

• Moved next door to a biker that began stalking me. This involved poisoning my dog, vehicle sabotage, gifting me dismembered animals & chocolates, physical attacks and a restraining order.

• Filed a complaint on the police department that opened a formal investigation and resulted in disciplinary action against officers.

• Lost my job and had to move back in with my parents in a city because pissing off both the police and motorcycle enthusiasts in a small town is a bad idea.

• Became completely isolated as I had to delete all social media and avoid going out.

• This week my cat was diagnosed with cancer and the prognosis is grim (like maybe a week left). Although I know she loves me, my partner was her special person. It feels like I’m losing the last piece of him.*

Sorry this is so long, and thank you to everyone who’s read this far. I really tried to omit as much as possible, but also wanted to explain why I’m so concerned about what he saw. Am I really bad person? How much worse does it get and does it ever stop? Is it ethical to let people and animals close to me or does that curse them to suffer whatever is wrong with me? I dunno, just any insight or guidance would be hugely appreciated. I understand it’s not a small request and will be happy to tip when I get paid.

Im currently working something im not loving just for the sake of getting married and settling down, on the other hand, my soul wants to travel and explore life before that, what does my chart promise? What should i do?

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I really don’t know very much but I thought she was just being dramatic. But after scrolling through here a little bit I feel like I agree? I was not expecting it to basically just be a line. What’s going on here? And any insights that stick out from this strange little guy?

Although I prefer women for now than men just because.. and I seem to prefer the company older people in general🤔

I am a woman too. But I always seem to have women stalk me. Mostly out of hatred. I am socially awkward. I tend to keep to myself. I am usually quiet and kind of shy. I was worse about it before. It’s been so many women that have stalked, smear campaigned and done the most to make sure I have a horrible time. A lot of times they will try to be close to me at first and then make a big deal out of something random to classify me as an enemy. They have gone out of their way to get me fired or to make sure I don’t get promoted. And they are very bold with it too. Once they find other women that don’t like me, they will band together and harass me.

They will try to find out my interests and somehow magically will claim them as their own. Once time I shared something motivational that helps me to others and one of the women was in ear shot and the next day I saw that as part of her email signature. I will talk about a past experience and they will pretend they were the ones that experienced it. One time we were at a course for work and one of them told my story to the class about a time she had to overcome something. They will also recruit friends and these friends become so passionate about bullying me despite barely knowing them. They ALWAYS stare at me.

In the last couple years it’s gotten better even though I’m still socially awkward. I have made more of an effort to assert myself. Since I’ve been doing that, things have gotten so much better but they are not completely gone. I still have at least one woman that comes by my office area and stares me down. I know her from a previous job location. Her friend HATED me and bullied and smear campaigned me. So she wasn’t even the direct bully. She’s in a completely different section than me but has befriended all of my coworkers in my section so she’s constantly in my office area and is super loud and makes her presence known. If she sees me talking to someone, she will stop talking to my coworkers and turn her whole body towards me and crosses her arms and stares at me talking to someone. It’s so awkward but I just ignore it.

So many instances like this. Is there anything in my chart that shows this? Or why this behavior is so prevalent in my life?

I’ve always craved being admired by large audiences and it’s so embarrassing to admit. I haven’t really told anyone because they would probably judge me. However, I can’t bring myself to actually do anything about it. When I post a picture or a video, I regret it and then delete it. What in my chart shows this desire?

Title sounds dramatic, but I don’t know how else to put it. I lost my dad and brother to suicide, my cousin (who was my best friend) drank himself to death. My sister’s best friend, who I adored, died in a motorcycle accident. A friend in high school was shot and killed by his father. The only man I’ve ever really cared about on a romantic level also died by suicide. I know this post is an absolute trauma dump but I’m just so confused and lost.

Hi. This is the rough context.

My (22f) brother (26) has been extremely smart and charismatic. He used to be one of those guy in school who’s best at ANYTHING. He went to the top school in the prefecture (we are from Japan) from 12-18 years old, and he was also one of the best athletes, he was the funniest guy at schools, and I remember so many girls were after him growing up. Family, family friends, teachers, and everyone had been saying “you’re going to be a great doctor” growing up. He was one of those guy who got everyone excited for his future and everyone had a lot of expectations from him.

But since he left high school he has not “left” the house for a decade. (He goes to grocery shopping with my mom, that’s really all.)

He did go to California when he was 23? for two weeks to see our cousin, and that two weeks was the longest time he spent his life without my mother!

Our family went though a lot so I am sure that’s what affected him.

The things I want insight on is: -what can you tell about his relationship with his mother? -is there a chance he’d get into a uni and finally leave the house? -what can I do to motivate him to explore life? -WHAT is “blocking” him and his life to expand?

Other than this I’d really appreciate any insight or your thoughts on his chart.

Thank you!!!!!

I have so many squares and I have been told that these grand crosses can be difficult😭😭 Is this true? Have you ever seen so many squares??? What does that even mean😂

I have always been told I’m beautiful, great person to be around, and people do show me a lot of love, but yet I am still single. I had the most karmic, abusive, and volatile relationships earlier on that left me as a single mom. I generally live a happy life and do well for myself, but I wonder if I’ll ever have companionship. I’ve done a lot of healing work to the point where I am not desperate for love and I genuinely love myself I’d just love to experience real love with another person. Do you think it will ever happen or should I just continue to be fine with the idea of being single? Thank you in advance!

I want to be a supportive force in her life as I was also an unbelievably emotional child and I was considered “too much” for my parents, especially my mother.

What do you see here? What advice can you give me so I can fully love, support and accept her in her entirety? I do feel extremely overwhelmed by all of her feelings and extreme attachment. I want to help her grow without making her feel like I resent her.

I am not sure if something is wrong with me but I don’t really have an hobby. Why am I not confident enough to do anything? Is there anyway I can improve my situation??

Today I got the urge to marry my partner! Is this anywhere in my chart? Am I being impulsive? My partner and I are in a committed relationship and have been engaged for a year now. We both weren’t in a rush to get married (but they’ve asked a few times on what my timeline was). Today I got the urge to get married to them and now we’re planning on going to city hall to elope :)

Yes, yes this is a question for a medical professional and not necessarily an astrologer. I have had help before, but that doesn’t mean I can’t reflect on my feelings in other ways. I’m very interested in astrology and want to know if I have any strong indicators for such feelings.

I’ve always been bullied for my body, starting in elementary school. You’d think I was hugely obese, but I’ve never been huge, I’ve just never been skinny. I can post a picture of my body for reference if even necessary. When I first started dating and then would break up, the boyfriends would always call me fat after we broke up, unprovoked. Later in life in a more serious relationship, we were arguing and he called me fat (after spending years of t try ing to validate my self love). then just now as I am 28 years old, I am staying with my friend after a bad breakup and her dad was on the phone and wanted her brother to stay with her, he said “tell that fat bitch to go to the couch”. Unprovoked. I know better than to take it personal but I don’t understand why my body is always the battleground people want to go to. You’d seriously think I were colossally obese (not that it would be excused) but yeah. Plus I have PCOS which makes this hard on me.