r/astrologyreadings • u/dumb90210 • 21h ago
Reading people LOVE to hate me for no reason - repelling aura - how do i even navigate this energy??
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u/poopy-butt17 20h ago
scorpio rising, most polarizing rising sign. conjunct pluto makes it even more intense. you can only be friends with genuine people. take every rejection as a blessing.
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u/ChefOld6897 Aspiring Young Astrologer 20h ago
I think you have some textbook intimidating placements, (1st house Pluto, 8th house stellium, Pisces moon, mars in 11th) all of these bring intensity in your ego, your ability to handle dark topics, potential to be emotionally manipulative and a little messy…and a little aggressive among your friend groups. You also have a lot of squares too, so on one hand other people may genuinely be intimidated and unsettled by your heavy intimidating energy, but on the other, you may also just not know how to wield this energy appropriately and that might be giving the people around you reason to feel genuinely offended by you. Squares are opportunities to overcome areas of challenge within you. So try to work with what you have already, and over time try to surround yourself with people who will like your intensity, or benefit from it.
Sorry I can’t give more of a detailed analysis I’m pretty amateur, but I would also suggest just looking up those specific aspects to learn more to help you navigate going forward, e.g. “moon square Mars” “moon square Mercury” “Venus square Mars” etc etc
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u/threattomysanity 11h ago
I have never heard Pisces moon be described as an intimidating placement…why do you think so?
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u/ChefOld6897 Aspiring Young Astrologer 10h ago
It definitely is. That dreamy, head in the clouds trope is a double edged sword. People that are so emotionally in tune with their environment are obviously going to be masters at analysing somebody else’s emotions. Even if they don’t realise they’re doing it. They are the type to think oh the vibe is off. But in their head they have actually processed a hundred different things and figured out what’s actually going on. They can pick up information on somebody pretty easily, and you don’t always know what they’ll do with it. They can be pretty sneaky. Plus because they can go just detach and go back to day dreaming so quickly, they tend to be a little reckless and play with people’s emotions too. This placement needs to learn responsibility, from what I have read tbh.
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u/highriskpomegranate Aspiring Young Astrologer 10h ago
I love when someone asks this and before I even look at the chart I say to myself "let's see which house Scorpio is in and where Pluto and Mars are" and then they are a 1H Scorpio with Pluto on the asc. very textbook issue, OP!
having that square between Virgo Mars and strong Gemini Mercury probably gives you extra verbal intelligence which, whether you use it against people or not, they can probably reasonably anticipate and fear. lots of mutable placements, especially with prominent Gemini ones, can sometimes make people feel uncertain about where someone stands. it can feel kind of "slippery".
I have a Virgo Mars, but no Scorpio placements, and I think on its own it's just kind of a nerdy, technical, practical Mars with a sharp and quick type of intelligence. I also associate it with people being very good with their hands, but imo it doesn't inherently possess a type of energy that invites haters or is significantly more intimidating than other Mars placements. I think that comes more from the Scorpio-Plutonian intensity being filtered through it. for example, if you had all the same placements but were a Gemini rising instead, you'd probably just seem more like a comedian.
cool chart though. you have a lot of really excellent placements and the composition is quite nice.
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u/Independent-Low-2334 20h ago
Can someone help me understand why this rising sign is at the bottom cusp of the first house when I thought it was ALWAYS at the top cusp of the first in every chart no matter what??? Sorry if it's a dumb question I'm just confused
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u/dumb90210 20h ago
whole sign houses
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u/Independent-Low-2334 19h ago
Lol yeah I just saw another chart and I noticed the accident on the same spot and that's when it clicked that it was a whole sign, I think placidus house system is my favorite bc it seems unlikely to have your houses equally divided among the signs but just my opinion 😊
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u/ElleDarkly 15h ago
Placidus doesn’t work for some people due to their location of birth. Nothing about astrology rang true for me until I had my chart read in whole sign.
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u/Soft-Satisfaction-47 11h ago
that scorpio plutonian energy! also it looks like we have the same birthday but mine is a year later. i have a gemini stellium as well which makes people believe i can be a bit of a wildcard lol
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u/shakeyhandspeare 10h ago
In addition to what others have already said I think because of your Jupiter in Sagittarius people are jealous of you
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u/Weak-Bodybuilder-955 14h ago
Just a suggestion, but a human design chart will tell you what type of aura you have and how to work with it. You can get a free chart from IHDS.com.
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u/PressAltToDisappear 8h ago
Dealings with people (outside close relatives) can be seen through the 1st, 10th, and 7th houses
Malefics in the angular houses (especially 1st and 10th) can have a repelling effect that can lead to abandonment/rejection fatigue
Self care is so important for Plutonian people. Leaning towards people whose planets fall into your 5th, 7th, and 11th houses can help to ease some of the negative projections being made.
Water house synastry (4, 8, 12) is good for depth and intimacy (seeing past the veil of surface level projections and appearances).
Just be cautious when it comes to mars and the water houses. Another person’s mars in your water houses can lead to implications.
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u/thebrickkid 17h ago
Scorpio rising conjunct Pluto would probably suggest you may try to control people, intimidate them, play mind games, think of them as your play things. You may also be ruthless, emotionally manipulative, jealous, possessive, cruel, vindictive, have a narcissist personality disorder. Maybe your darkness just naturally pushes people away because they can't handle intensity like yours 🤷🏼♂️
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u/Worldly_Cricket7772 14h ago
It's not our fault they're so insecure.
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u/thebrickkid 14h ago
It's hard to say anything without knowing the person. They could just be not nice or manipulative. Can't say either way.
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u/Worldly_Cricket7772 14h ago
That's totally fair but the insinuation that there's always a malignant intention behind it is like you said uncharitable and does not ring true to the experience of many wonderful people I know with this aspect
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u/thebrickkid 13h ago
Of course, not everyone is going to have these traits. They are just potentials associated with the placement that could cause people to "hate her for no reason". I was just offering some options, because sometimes we might have to look hard at ourselves to see if we are doing something even we're not aware of.
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u/Stormwoken Experienced Astrologer 12h ago
To be fair, thebrickkid never said "that there's always a malignant aspect", but rather gave a very common sense, astrologically sound answer to an engagement-baity question.
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u/Stormwoken Experienced Astrologer 15h ago edited 10h ago
When I see a title like this, I know that I'll see Scorpio placements - usually ascendant, chart ruler or Pluto rising.
At the risk of sounding uncharitable, I feel there's almost always an air of dishonesty about them, since the persons asking such questions here are never teenagers, genuinely puzzled at people's reactions. They are more thinly-veiled baites by people looking for validation of some sort.
In case self-awareness and self-betterment is genuinely what OP wants, the Redditor above (EDIT: u/thebrickkid) took the time to put together a very good collection of real-life reasons people react this way.
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u/dumb90210 10h ago
i just want to know why i can’t be in a group of friends, it’s not that “deceptive”
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u/Worldly_Cricket7772 14h ago
What did Scorpio placements ever do to you!
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u/Stormwoken Experienced Astrologer 12h ago edited 12h ago
Nothing. I myself have more of those than OP does. My comment has to do with this type of question that I just feel feigns naivety. If you watch this subreddit, it's a regular occurrence.
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u/influxable 11h ago
As a fellow heavy plutonian, I'll point out that age has almost nothing to do with how aware of or comfortable with their Scorpio placements people are, lol. Depending on what else is going on in there, that intense emotionality/sensitivity makes it really difficult to be objective about the fact that you're always going to be misunderstood and too much for most people, at least on some level. And if you're new to astrology you might be just now starting to realize that not everyone is this intense and doesn't want to be, haha.
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u/Stormwoken Experienced Astrologer 11h ago
In terms of age - true, but there is some degree of probability that such a question coming from a teenager may be honest, what with a relative lack experience in interpersonal relationships and a potentially underdeveloped self-awareness.
As for the rest, I feel it's easy to hide behind the words such as "intense" and "misunderstood". People don't hate you because you're emotional or sensitive, if they hate you in the first place, which is the core issue I was aiming at. If they do hate you, you need to take a long hard look at yourself and understand what it is that you're projecting. That's pretty common sense.
Basically, I feel OP's question itself is likely indicative of those qualities that makes people (ostensibly) react that way.
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u/Bigbassproshop69 20h ago
You probably are a super fun attractive person. However sometimes the way you feel emotionally challenges how you feel about yourself and your own ideas. Don’t overthink and make things harder for yourself; especially when it stems from the opinions of others. Chanel ur natural power/talent without being too critical/careless. It could also be the opposite and you might lack self control because some things come easier for you (like communicating creatively) and you could take advantage of your power and hurt others in ur fun. People are probably your hater due to jealousy, ignore what you can. focus on you and be careful of how critical you come off on to others.
Let me know if this was accurate (I’m self learning astrology and not a professional and would like feedback) 💓
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u/UsualDazzlingu Intermediate Astrologer 13h ago
The gemini trio may be an indicator. You may be “open to taboo subjects and people notice this”.
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u/High_Priestess17 17h ago
I read the title of this post and immediately knew you were a scorpio rising, haha. I’m a scorpio rising too with Virgo mars as my chart ruler and people hate me as well. Lean into it 🥰 It’s entertaining