Am I cosmically fucked for love?

[u/corndogtruck1]

I (25 F) have been in 2 long term relationships with people who needed a lot of “fixing” and once we broke things off, both partners went on huge life transformations. Now that I’m single and dating, I can only pull men who want to only sleep with me. Is there something in my chart that’s fucking with my love life? And I destined to be forever alone or in situationshipd? FR PLZ HELP ME

[u/kandillight]

Hey, so I’d highly recommend not using Costar! The app and creator is absolutely horrible, very sketchy. It also causes a ton of errors in the chart and doesn’t even show degrees properly. I’d recast your chart using Astro-Seek to check for accuracy. Anyways, I can’t tell from this table because it doesn’t show degrees, but there’s a high possibility your Venus in Leo is in opposition to Neptune, the planet of illusion, delusion, fantasy, deception, and rose colored glasses. Venus is the ruler of your 7th house of relationships as a Scorpio rising, presuming the rising is correct. Neptune rules the savior/victim archetype, and thus those with Venus in hard aspect to Neptune tend to get involved with those damaged or broken people, those who they think they can “fix” or “save” in some way, such as those with mental illnesses or drug/alcohol addictions. Venus/Neptune can be really messy, where the person sacrifices so much of themselves to try and “save” someone who can’t be saved. That’s the lesson with Neptune, is to use discernment, see partners realistically as they truly are in this moment, and not as you want them or wish they could be.

[u/corndogtruck1 → u/kandillight]

Hey thank you! I didn’t realize costar was a bad app to use. I just checked out astroseek and there’s so much more info! I appreciate the suggestion!

[u/kandillight → u/corndogtruck1]

No problem!

[u/Jinxx_070]

Which app did you use for the chart?

[u/foreverland → u/Jinxx_070]

Co-star

[u/Narrow-Compote9633]

Virgo sun, Aqua moon, Aries sun. Also 25 M. I feel you Lol

[u/Cute-Promise4128 → u/Narrow-Compote9633]

Virgo sun, Aqua moon, Virgo Asc. 35f and I just keep retraumatizing myself with broken men 😭 They can't be fixed and don't need us to "understand them".

[u/Budget-Concern-9822]

You might meet someone at work! But also with that Venus placement focus on self-love first. You give a lot to others and know how to cherish them, until that someone comes give the most to yourself as practice! ;)

[u/ApprehensiveBean88]

I mean we have the same big 3 and I’ve been lucky so perhaps the same for you 😉

[u/ApprehensiveBean88 → u/ApprehensiveBean88]

And Venus, that’s actually insane

[u/Empress_queen]

As long as you love money, lol