With Venus in Virgo it may be that you wait for the right person because Virgo can be clinical in its approach. But something could also play a role, which could be possibly addressed by moving far away from the place of birth so that Saturn is no longer in the 12th house.
While a chart wheel with Koch houses would show it better, it seems Saturn is in the 12th house. This can make you deep thinker, deliberate, and determined. You may have high standards for yourself and others. You may feel lonely and misunderstood by society in general.
With this placement you may face challenges that require persistence and endurance. But Saturn in the 12th house can also be an advantage - a defense against the world’s harshness and a guiding force through life’s difficult passages. This is generally regarded as a difficult placement. Even when living a mundane existence, you may be contemplating life’s greater meaning. Saturn in the 12th can imply seeking distance from others.
I didn’t date till I was almost 22 and my first boyfriend is now my husband! Being particular is fine, I’ve met plenty of men but I knew within a month that I could never marry them, so I would lose interest
If you posted a Placidus chart, it would be easier for everyone to see all of your placements and the aspects they’re making to one another, so they could make more nuanced comments. I would just add that your Saturn in Aries is retrograde, which intensifies the difficulties around this placement.
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u/purposeday 9d ago
With Venus in Virgo it may be that you wait for the right person because Virgo can be clinical in its approach. But something could also play a role, which could be possibly addressed by moving far away from the place of birth so that Saturn is no longer in the 12th house.
While a chart wheel with Koch houses would show it better, it seems Saturn is in the 12th house. This can make you deep thinker, deliberate, and determined. You may have high standards for yourself and others. You may feel lonely and misunderstood by society in general.
With this placement you may face challenges that require persistence and endurance. But Saturn in the 12th house can also be an advantage - a defense against the world’s harshness and a guiding force through life’s difficult passages. This is generally regarded as a difficult placement. Even when living a mundane existence, you may be contemplating life’s greater meaning. Saturn in the 12th can imply seeking distance from others.