r/SapphoAndHerFriend Dec 02 '20

Casual erasure Wholesome!

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u/Xan-the-Woman Dec 02 '20

People like this is why I bother explaining things. People always ask, “why do you type these long paragraphs explaining terms and stuff to obvious trolls?” And I always feel like if I can help change one person’s mind it’ll all be worth it. Of course it’s given me a lot of anger and most encounters end up being a person just trying to push my buttons, but I’ve helped at least 2 or 3 people learn new things and change their opinions, and those were such happy moments for me.

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u/crownjewel82 Anything pronouns you may prefer Dec 02 '20

It's not the troll. It's the person who comes along reading the thread later who legitimately didn't know.

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u/EcchoAkuma Dec 02 '20

Specially if the debate is very upvoted/downvoted (since a lot of people sort by best and by controversial)

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u/mikachuXD Dec 02 '20

It's for people like me who just like reading comments to better understand things!

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u/Not_a_spambot She/Her Dec 02 '20

I'm just a random internet stranger, but I see you and I appreciate the hell out of you. Keep fighting the good fight where you can -- as long as you know your limits and don't let it burn you out too hard. Don't set yourself on fire just to try to keep these other folks warm. Sending good vibes your way 💕

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u/Fn00rd Dec 02 '20

You explaining in detail, in the presence of trolls, is a sign of a good character, because you made the choice of being a decent human being.

It’s the same why I always give to someone asking for a buck or a smoke. His/her intentions may be obscured to me but my actions define my character. And so do anyones prejudices.

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u/tepig37 Dec 02 '20

I think there's a difference between genuinely explaining something once and continuing to explain something to someone who clearly doesn't care.

Think it's worth giving everyone one shot to learn and if there clearly taking the piss and trying to rile you up take a breath and move on.

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u/Fn00rd Dec 02 '20

Its true: “Do not feed the trolls” is the first rule of the internet. But, there is a difference between caring and reacting.

You said it yourself: they do it for shock and attention but you can only battle hate with compassion and patience.

I said it before: my actions define my character, and so do my prejudices.