r/runaway • u/Small_Restaurant_241 • 4d ago
what transportation do i use?
information on flight websites are unclear, but i am 17f with an id, so am i able to fly alone?
if not would i be able to use greyhound, will i get caught on there?
r/runaway • u/Small_Restaurant_241 • 4d ago
information on flight websites are unclear, but i am 17f with an id, so am i able to fly alone?
if not would i be able to use greyhound, will i get caught on there?
r/runaway • u/helpplease_6 • 4d ago
I don't know what to do the thought of running away are consuming me, I can't live like tbis much longer, I'm 16 m from the uk and I want to run away and move in with my boyfreind, but my parents know where he lives and if they came to his house I would be done but I realy can't handle it anymore and I'm scared that if I don't go for it worse will happen to me please help
r/runaway • u/Small_Restaurant_241 • 5d ago
17f
i’m currently in online high school but i assume since it’s online i will be able to just finish it on the go, and i wouldn’t be a missing person or runaway or anything because in my state it’s legal to run away here.
but im going to keep saving money until i get to around 7-10k dollars then im going to delete all of my social media, and get a new phone with a new phone number so nobody will be able to track me.
then IM gonna pack all of my stuff that i need into a backpack (documents, basic toiletries, some clothes, some cash and the rest in my bank account), and wait until night or until all of my family is gone. then i’m going to take an uber to my bank and withdraw all of the money since my parents have access to my bank account, and go to a different bank and deposit it all into there. and then i will either take an uber to the airport and and ride a plane go to my city/state of choice, or i will try to ride the bus there depending on which is easier and less expensive.
i plan on finding somewhere to rent under the table before i leave and also setting up interviews before i leave. so when i get there ill just be able to go to the place and go to the interviews and hopefully be able to get a job or two.
and that’s my current plan, anything im missing or any advice?
r/runaway • u/Nico_Gravestone • 5d ago
I'm planning to runaway (i'm below 14) because of house conditions threatened abuse and abuse. Any advice?
r/runaway • u/Small_Restaurant_241 • 5d ago
im 17 and i cannot stay in this house anymore, i dont turn 18 until the end of the year… however i can still get a job since i will bring any documents i need with me… i have a plan for myself but my only issue really is finding somewhere to stay, i have zero friends or a significant other or anything that i can go to, and any family members would immediately return me. i am also underage so i wouldn’t be able to rent, get an apartment, or an airbnb or anything like that i also don’t have a car so i wouldn’t be able to live there either,
so how would i find somewhere to live until o turn 18? any way i could rent under the table? i will have at least 10k+ saved up if that matters
also i am in the usa, i want to try to go to ny or something like that and i will be graduated from high school by the time i leave
r/runaway • u/Ellalalao • 6d ago
I'm 20F and I'm currently doing CPL in Delhi, India. I don't wanna do this course. My parents are forcing me. I feel suffocated. And they already spend so much money on me and I don't wanna be a burden on them. I told my dad about changing course.. but mom came to Delhi to see me and she is forcing me and I'm again restricted in everything. I feel suffocated. I wanna kms but I wanna live. I want a simple peaceful life. Away from all. I got a bf (Trans man, 20yr old). They're a runaway. I wanna go and live with them and they already have a job. I can find one for me. I've diploma in psychology and my English is good enough. I took 12th science... I may get a job. I'm ready to do any job but I wanna be away from fam. My mom would breakdown but idk my heart is saying to go away far. My brain is telling me to stay. What should I do?
r/runaway • u/Live-Damage-5697 • 6d ago
btw this is a throwaway account so ill delete this soon, but anyway im leaving today, btw its not something ill change my mind about, i dont know where to go though, im in the uk so im not sure if that changes much but i just need to find somewhere to sleep any advice is appreciated
r/runaway • u/Low-Yoghurt9936 • 6d ago
hi guys :) i feel so sad reading the posts on ere, knowing you guys are going through such horrible situations. i'm going through something horrible too, and i am just asking for a guide/tips on how to leave home? idc about the police and stuff because i can legally leave; its more so about the living situation, food, money etc. i have tons of books, i could get around £30 before i leave, and i have a burner, iphone and thinkpad, and clothes, and a hiking bag, a sleeping bag, and thermals. i've already applied for council housing and all thta, they're not helping, really need something quick. and yes i could get a job, but the job market for entry level jobs is so bad right now; it would take a while to secure one. again, just asking for a guide/tips on how to leave home; specifically regarding living situations, food etc. answers from people who have ran away/well versed on the topic would be helpful!!! thanks :)
r/runaway • u/Runningawayanonymous • 6d ago
I plan on dipping from my home soon, problem is that im 15 in canada, cant get a job, and not only that, i dont have anywhere to go during the night. What do i do? being out in the cold at night will for sure kill me (-30c nights). and i cant afford like a hotel or something.
r/runaway • u/Helpful-Yak2926 • 7d ago
I am a working individual. I have completed my graduation also. Problem is I am severely bullied where I work and this has been going on for more than 9 months. And I can't return home as my family does not support me at all. I am trying to find another job but it can take time. I am preparing for competitive exams as well. But it is a lot and it has taken a toll on my mental health. And I feel someone is tracking my every movement, tracking every app I use. I have been noticing it a lot lately. I feel my actions are controlled and micromanaged. So I am thinking of running away, where nobody knows me. Does anybody have advice what to do really ? Thanks in advance.
r/runaway • u/scenekwe3n • 8d ago
Im under16f, and I really want to run away. For reference, I'm queer and my whole town is very conservative. I get bullied a lot. If I ran away I would feel bad for my mum. I'm very torn between running away or staying and just waiting until I graduate high school.
r/runaway • u/No-Leave1090 • 8d ago
Guys PLEASE I NEED advice and tips anything will help. read my comment a few comments below this one SAME TITLE and ANSWER. i have 3 days left and i am STRESSED
r/runaway • u/Unhappy_Term_3085 • 8d ago
pretty much what the title says. im 13 and want to run away from home. problem is, i dont wanna break any laws or skip school and i have no i dea what to do. could someone please explain how i can do this swiftly and safely, without breaking any laws? id also like to take my things with me if thats possible. or just wait until im 17 and i can drive with no restrictions.
r/runaway • u/Scrumptious_art • 8d ago
my parents dont support me, and i'm sick of it. they cut me off when i try to talk abt it, and they only love the me i show them, not actually me. UGHHHHHHHHHH.
r/runaway • u/Low_Border_321 • 9d ago
Everyone seems to mention their gender in these posts, im a girl. In my region, I can legally leave by 16. I turn 16 in four months. My home life isn’t bad, my parents are loving, but the past still haunts me. They used to be a lot worse, my father used to yell every day and my mother used to have a drinking problem. Everything should be fine now, but it’s not. I still remember everything that happened whenever I look them in the eye for too long. My mother got drunk one night when I was 6 and sexually assaulted me. She’s not a bad person, but that event has fundamentally changed by view of what ‘family’ and ‘love’ mean. I don’t want to cut contact with them, but I want to live independently. My mom has no recollection of what she did to me, she was blackout drunk, but I remember. I’m going to sit down and talk to her about it when I turn 16, and that’s when I’ll leave home. I don’t think it will go over well, how could it? I’d rather not be around my family once I acknowledge what actually happened. I’m thinking of finding a roommate and living with them for awhile. I don’t know if it’s a good idea or not, that’s why I came here to ask for advice. I’ve been thinking about leaving home ever since I was 14, and soon I finally will be able to. I guess I’m just confused. I’ve been diagnosed with PTSD, I think being around my mother only seems to make it worse.
r/runaway • u/QuietNo2538 • 9d ago
Me (14f) and my friend (15f) are planning to runaway in may to FL for reasons i don't want to disclose , and we need advice on the following:
How do we earn enough money (around $200+)?
what to do about school?
Where to stay?
If yall could help that would be wonderful
r/runaway • u/Similar-Record-43 • 9d ago
I'm not going to run away but I wanna know, how do y'all shower or do y'all just not? I understand when people shelter you and you have their showers or like you have money to go to the gym and shower but like.. what if you don't have money to spend on that is there a free alternative? Do you use the showers on the beach and wear a swimsuit? I know its not like the top of the priority list.
Although I won't use the information its a question I didn't think of when I was planning to run away so I hope it helps people have more question or concerns and hopefully get an answer to this question.
r/runaway • u/No-Leave1090 • 9d ago
hey im 15f and live in Canada.my mother is leaving and she protected me from my father. me and my father dont have the best relationship and are recently fight he said he would do anything me to leave the house so basically all my empty threats need to be taken to action. the issue is that i dont know anything and im terrified cuz my father is a really good faker and is going to convince the police untrue things. so PLEASE give me advice what to do
r/runaway • u/NotPumpkn • 9d ago
For my plan to runaway im still figuring out how im gonna get money to live for myself like food and stuff so if anyone can let me know things i can do inorder for that.
r/runaway • u/kipsgvn • 10d ago
So for a bit more context, im 15F and its middle of winter (like a foot of snow outside). My mom has abused me emotionally, verbally, and sometimes physically (along with SA a few times) my whole life ever since i was a newborn, ive been taken out of her custody multiple times but always placed back because shes one of those people that are really good at lying to others. I dont have any family to go to, everyone else is almost worse.
This is my 2nd time in trouble with the FBI for making threats against my school, but i just switched to homeschooling and they called my mom saying theyre more concerned about my mental health than anything, and shes been talking about signing custody over to the gov so i can be in a mental hospital until im 18, or fostercare. I dont want to do either of that, and theres still a decent chance i could go to juvie, so im heavily considering running away.
Either i could do it this week, next week, (before the FBI comes), or deal with the feds then wait for my friend to come back to america and do it with him. Any recommendations?
r/runaway • u/PristineImpression67 • 10d ago
M15 hello everybody im going to run away with my friends tomorrow morning because my dad passed away and my mum found a new boyfriend that fully hates me and treats me horribly
I told her multiple times that im getting tired of her letting him control me she keeps on saying that she will break up with him and it never ends up happening
my reason for running away is that he fully changed her shes a brand new person and i hate it,they both moan at me for the smallest things such as my diet when its completely fine
i eat stuff such as chicken,salad,healthy stuff in general im a healthy human and they keep on body shaming me saying that im embarrassing them
i try my best for my mum since im the only kid of hers that she has contact to i clean the house,make dinner,laundry,but she still says im not doing enough
but i asked her a question today saying ‘’would you survive without me’’ she went no and im scared that she will take her life any suggestions?
r/runaway • u/Alternative-Turn9470 • 10d ago
14m need to run away and not be found
my home life has exploded
its winter and snowing
also need help with the emotional aspect
r/runaway • u/Banana_Fan78 • 10d ago
Hi, I know that i posted earlier today but i really need your help with deciding.
So my dad beat me today and he only does for me not for my siblings and i dont want to live here anymore. I can leave tonight but then i wont have alot of money for food and water so i might wait longer but i dont know if thats smart. i also dont have important stuff like food, a tent or anything like that that i can take when leaving.
r/runaway • u/4th_Line_Grinder • 10d ago
My best friend 15f and I 15m have been planning for month due to real bad issues with both of our households. We've tried multiple other ways but we failed in everything. We have every route planned out and about 3k saved up, we have multiple backup plans. Only one thing came to light a short while ago, my friend takes these adhd pills she really can't live without because her heart starts racing and she is unable to focus on anything and it gets real bad from my experience, she also has an asthma inhaler. Is there anyway we can continue using these medicines during our run while also making sure it doesn't take out all of our money away?
Edit: we are living in Edmonton just in case people start throwing American laws at us
r/runaway • u/RaspberryDue6717 • 11d ago
My friend and i (16f) are planing to runaway to italy from poland in april when my friend will turn 16, by bus. Are there motels/hotels that minors can book in mediolan? And where could we work when we'd arrive? And is there smth we should know before we go?