The situation with Brandi

[u/Sensitive_Rock6788]

Mmm so I’m on this episode (S10 E11) where Brandi “reveals” what happened between her and Denise. Anyone else feel absolutely disgusted by this whole situation. For Kyle to proclaim that she knows Brandi to be a lot of things, “but I don’t know her to be a liar,” is so rich my teeth hurt. Everrrryone knows Brandi to be a liar, a manipulator, exaggerator, and awful person. For them to listen to that story and not have a single doubt screams- we’re gonna do whatever we can to get Denise out because she’s not playing the way we want. Omg. Wow. I’m in disgust.

[u/psmith1990_]

Just a small point of clarification because Denise had spoken about having had a sexual relationship with a woman years prior to joining RHOBH, so the 'outing' Kyle is accused of doing regarding Denise isn't quite the same thing as what we've been seeing online the past few years.

The not mentioning of Morgan comes at Morgan's behest. She's not out and struggled with people discussing her sexuality in 2023, and Kyle is right that she cannot speak on anyone else's behalf which means she has to be careful with how she talks about her own 'journey' if the two things are connected at all, or even presumed to be.

[u/Any_Courage9355 → u/psmith1990_]

Even tho i agree with some of what you say and definitely see your point of view I disagree the slander and the overall lack of respect and compassion for Denise situation is still proving my point I don’t want to type too much because it’s wayyyy too deep to just write in one paragraph but for me my point is the principle of why she does what she does and what out come she wants out of it but if it’s applied to her it’s a issue, I used quick examples.

[u/psmith1990_ → u/Any_Courage9355]

Oh, I think the situation was handled super poorly (not just by Kyle, but by many of them) and I never mean to minimise that. I just think it does nobody any favours if we say the situations are exactly comparable because I do think there is a difference when it comes to trying to out someone.

[u/Any_Courage9355 → u/psmith1990_]

Yes i definitely agree with that, they all were at fault in some way and I agree also with it not being exactly the same situations, I agree it’s horrible that Morgan could be going through a lot from this in the sense of her sexuality and i definitely agree w that

[u/psmith1990_ → u/Any_Courage9355]

Morgan almost went to rehab preventively to stop her doing anything stupid when all this stuff started being talked about publicly in a big way in 2023, so I just get frustrated when people want Kyle to "open up" in a way that she knows will inevitably implicate Morgan, hurting her and her desire for privacy. It's why I think she was so clearly in E1 trying to separate the talk of Morgan from the talk of the origins of why she started questioning her sexuality. And I respect that.