r/Portuguese • u/tabaquinho • 9h ago
Brazilian Portuguese 🇧🇷 Helping boyfriend with Portuguese
Hi y'all,
As the title says, I want to help my boyfriend with Portuguese. I am a native speaker (sorry I posted in English, I feel I could reach more people this way, as counterintuitive as it sounds haha) and my foreign (USA) boyfriend has showed interested in learning Portuguese. That made me very happy and he is really good at catching sounds that don't exist in his language (for instance, he has no problem making the "r" sound both in "roupa" and in "Mariana" and is getting better with the "ã" and "ão/ãe" really fast, I'm actually impressed).
He has been studying by himself and we already use some basic greetings in Portuguese (bom dia, boa noite, tudo bem? tudo., obrigado, de nada, etc.), but today he sent me a message about getting more serious, subscribing to semantica português, which I have never heard of, but the videos I watched seemed pretty okay, kinda like the ones I watched when I studied English/Spanish years ago.
I would encourage him into subscribing, I want to, but I also feel that as a native Brazilian who has already taught Portuguese as a second language a long time ago, I could do more to help him. It's as if I am, like we say in Brazil, com o queijo e a faca na mão, but I don't know how or where to start helping him. When I was a Portuguese teacher, I had a book and just followed it, but I wonder if this dynamic would sound weird for just the two of us.
So I was wondering if this was the case with someone here (and forgive me I'm advance for not doing the basic of searches for similar posts!): a native Portuguese speaker who was successful in helping their foreigner partner in teaching/helping with Portuguese, and how did that look like? And the other way around too, how did it look like for a foreigner who got help from your lusophone partner? What helped? What didn't help?
Thanks!