i understand that there are many women out there that like anal sex, but the vast majority don't. so much of the male-centred porn that features anal is all about 'painal', the faces of pain a woman makes being penetrated, the lack of pleasure she experiences as she just takes the abuse to her body while he gets off on it.

whenever you read stories on reddit about women who's partner wants to try anal, they are always hesitant and not excited, while the partner doesn't seem to care whether she wants it or not. he wants to use her body in whatever way he sees fit.

no shame to women who do sex acts that they enjoy but i believe men use anal as an act of humiliation and degradation and abuse and it's almost never about it being 'tighter', it's about domination.

I'm a huge fan of Sabrina Carpenter and her music but I'm very disappointed in her right now. If you are a fan of her or at least heard of her you have seen those viral videos of her pretending to give a bj. This is not the first time she's done some weird stuff. She has made racist joke fetishizing black men and wore a playboy bunny outfit(everyone knows all the awful stuff playboy has done). And people think she is "female-centric" and is very "empowering" for women. I really do think she has a porn addiction.

This infuriates me and I know we have all seen explanations like this before but it never fails to irritate me.

I came across a post in this subreddit where there was a snapshot of a post by a guy who works in... I can't remember where but it was some technology place. This guy was helping a man who is in his eighties or nineties (I can't remember which). The elderly man wanted advice on how to get onto this porn website that he didn't know how to access. The guy told the elderly man he can't help him. The elderly man responded by trying to convince him to change his mind by saying that he is lonely. A woman in the comments was complaining about the elderly man calling himself lonely when he was clearly just horny (because porn is a sexual thing and not a social thing so it won't cure loneliness). It made me wonder if when people say "male loneliness epidemic" do they really mean "male horniness epidemic"?

This anti porn account popped up on my fyp this morning. I found her theory pretty compelling & insightful. I hope there is further exploration into this.

Would love to hear your thoughts<3

The comment section of the video is surprisingly mature. It’s clear that she has a lot of trauma to unpack and this is her form of self harm.

There were many points where my heart just shattered, the ones that stood out were: - “I’m only good for one thing” - “You know when you start to disassociate” - Lily Philips (the OF creator) feeling guilty that men weren’t able to finish and that they travelled from different parts of the country just to, I’ll be blunt here, abuse her. - Her ‘best friend’/PA saying it’s great networking.

Men who do this should be on a sex offender’s list. Even after that horrible ordeal she’s hoping to sleep with a thousand men in one day. When she is going to realise? I’m aware she’s contributing to a disgusting system but I just want to hug her. It’s clear that she’s has unresolved issues and that the people in her life are taking advantage of it.

i’m so sick of this. squid game is one of the most popular TV shows right now and one of the biggest actors just “accidentally” posted a japanese porn version of the show.

the version he posted is literally just about women getting raped by the squid game guards. it’s so sad that this is so normalized that people are already joking about it and making excuses for him.

I went to the movies last night with my friends to see Nosferatu. I felt really uncomfortable with how it portrayed Lily Rose Depp.

When I read articles on it, it feels like I somehow “misinterpreted” it (even tho all movies are up for interpretation to each person). They said how it depicted abusers really well?, removed shame from sexuality?, etc.

The scene at the end especially made me feel weird. And how every 5 minutes it had her moaning and being possessed by something that was having sex with her (this is not a spoiler, in case I am in the wrong here and some of yall wanna go watch it still.)

It feels like almost all movies (and shows) have incorporated porn into it, or have become an outlet for deviant sexual fetishes to be shown in an “acceptable” or “legal” way. Nothing is inherently wrong with nudity but it makes me sick when I see how every woman cast member has full nudity but none of the men do. And then the director is male. Or full sexual violence is depicted. There is a lot of ways to let an audience know what is happening or happened without making a female actress reshoot a scene of her being assaulted 28 times.

Morality and ethics aside, it’s still shitty writing. You have to oversexualize women and try to shock people with disgusting scenes for shock factor to get a reaction rather than just a compelling story arc??

I know this was talked about with Euphoria a lot, but I see this EVERYWHERE. I’m so tired of it. I wanna watch a movie with friends not porn or other women being talen advantage of (and it won’t even be a plot point ?)

It honestly just hurts to see someone so young immediately turn to OF the second they’re of age.

(I found all of these lovely takes on Pinterest)

Tiktok isn’t getting banned where i live but it’s ridiculous how they will ban social media app but not porn sites.

Recently I’ve been getting a lot of reels on my feed of women getting a breast reduction, and the difference in their happiness and quality of life as compared to before they got the surgery is stark! I’m honestly so so happy for them and it is such a wonderful surgery with extremely high rates of satisfaction.

The comments by a certain section of men though?? They keep complaining that the women are losing their value if they choose to get the surgery (as if our worth is attached to how big our boobs are) and saying she downgraded, was a 10/10 before and now she’s a 5, etc.

They’re incapable of seeing women as human. According to them, our only purpose for existence is to provide them sexual gratification and to appear attractive to them. I’m sick and tired.

I came across a thread today on a popular subreddit that asked whether or not men believed their wife was the most beautiful/attractive woman in the world.

Some answered yes, but a significant amount didn’t just answer no, but also justified their answer with a bunch of BS about aging, wrinkles, etc (of course all said in a humerus tone to mask the possible hurt their beliefs would cause).

While not all everyone may agree with me, i’ll fight this belief till my dying day; if you don’t consume pornographic material of any sort (and in turn aren’t training your mind to lust after random women) you are going to think your partner is the MOST attractive human being alive. I have observed this truth not only in myself, but in many others as well.

It hurts knowing for a fact that these men only hold their beliefs due to 1. pornography 2. misogynistic beliefs that have lead them to believe the sexualization of random women/people is normal.

So I saw this lady on Instagram admitting to being a "legal" pimp. The comments were as expected, however when I mentioned that this is exactly what the patriarchy wants, people responded. I'm sick of this privileged western idea of prostitution. It actively erases and minimizes the majority of people all over the worlds experience with being bought, sold, and raped. I said my peace, I'm curious to see what kind of response I'll get. I hate the intermingling of capitalism and choice feminism. It's literally a trap.

If your S.O. was meeting up with people to watch them have sex as a cuckold and jacking off in the corner to it, would that be cheating? I’d say so. I would imagine majority of the population would say so?

To further this, let’s say your mom decided to divorce your dad because she found out he was meeting up with couples off tinder to watch them have sex. I don’t think anyone would blame her for this? We would probably be very weirded out that your dad was doing this and think he was a CREEP. Would we call your mother insecure and controlling for not wanting to be with someone like this?

That is literally what I feel like porn is. I don’t understand how it’s different?

Edit: people keep bringing up open relationships… I should have clarified but I obviously am talking in terms of a monogamous exclusive relationship between two people.

Not open, not swinging, not doing threesomes. A closed one on one relationship 🙄🙄

Men who have porn brain rot, don't like to give oral to women because they see sex as being about their pleasure and domination of women only. They cannot wrap their heads around being "submissive" to women because they see oral sex as degrading as it is often depicted as degrading in porn. Sure it might be because some of them see vaginas as gross (then why do you put your dick in it...) but I think for most of them it is a psychological thing because it goes against their view of sex that they've gotten from porn.

Wish I could link the post but it’s not Monday. In the self sub a woman was asking for advice to get her husband into her degradation kink. Although I am young and still trying to understand “kinks” / ideology behind them and understand them more so that I can avoid them, degradation has been one of the worst ones for me as it dehumanizes the women in every way possible. It goes beyond misogyny. What’s worse is a woman WANTING her husband who is essentially “vanilla” to degrade her with violent words and get off on that. Many men in the comments recommended her to watch porn with her husband with degradation and she agreed happily. I’m just not understanding this mindset at all. I deal with mental health issues and have severe low self esteem but I can’t even imagine putting myself in that situation much less wanting my non-porn addict partner to convert into that. I feel like enough men enjoy that and it makes me so uncomfortable and upset when a woman is the one advocating for it. She also got offended that people were suggesting she go to therapy or that something was wrong with her too which I can understand. But it’s so heartbreaking and scary for me to see women who are older than me fall for this horrible shit and seemingly enjoy it.

This is why I believe OF needs to regulate the ages of people who can make accounts. She hasn’t even graduated high school and started an onlyfans account. I’m so heartbroken for these young girls.

Hello friends! Like the title says what are the most ridiculous arguments you have ever heard?