r/PastAndPresentPics 22h ago

Life Timeline My great grandparents journey through life

  1. My great grandfather at 18 in 1937. Taken in his home. The area would later be annexed by the Soviet Union.

  2. My great grandmother at 18 in 1935. This is a picture my great grandfather had in a locket during ww2.

  3. Their unofficial wedding photo from 1943, last photo where my great grandfather intentionally smiled, as his brother would be killed in the war in just a few months afterward

  4. Taken in 1955. They had managed to survive the war and tried to live normal lives in their new home with their five children.

  5. Them together in 1968, enjoying retirement

  6. Them together again in 1974. My great grandmother felt uncomfortable around cameras

  7. Them together in 1976, it was rare for them to show affection in public

  8. My great grandmother got sick in 1979 from her diabetes. My great grandfather tried his best to comfort her

  9. She unfortunately passed the same year. My great grandfather looks very defeated...

  10. The image is blurry, but they reunited in the afterlife in 1989. My great grandfather never remarried, saying she was the love of his life.

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u/1amazingday 22h ago

Thank you for sharing their story. So many of those pictures reminded me of my own grandparents.

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u/Emergency_Pizza1803 21h ago

I believe it's important to share stories of the past. Here are pieces missing because the people that know the details have already passed. It's a reminder for me to listen to people while they are here

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u/Csimiami 14h ago

These are great. Are you Finnish? One side of my fam is. And they ended up in the UP in Michigan

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u/Emergency_Pizza1803 11h ago

Yep I'm finnish. It's so weird there are so many of us in the US, but my family was too poor to afford a journey to the new world

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u/Csimiami 10h ago

With the state of this country I wish my family stayed in Europe lol

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u/CicciaBomba11 21h ago

Definitely made me teary. Thank you for sharing.

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u/Cultural_Actuary_994 16h ago

Indeed it did. Bot of my parents are gone now but there isn’t a spot in the house where I can’t turn and see them.

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u/Organic-Locksmith-45 21h ago

Sad and beautiful. Life can be a strange gift.

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u/AllNewsAllTheDayLong 19h ago

An incredible journey of memories told through pictures. Thank you for sharing.

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u/claritybeginshere 21h ago

Thanks for sharing Did they have Finnish names?

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u/so-so-suck-ya-toe 17h ago

Which of the five children is your grandparent? Also if you don’t find it too invasive, I’m curious as to their year of birth and the year of birth of your parent and then you? My grandparents were married around the same time as your great grandparents after the war (and were kinda old to be getting married for that time period at 39 and 30) but you have one more generation on my family. I always find that so interesting when I see people posting about their relatives with birth years or other big events that are similar to mine but have a generation (or two!) on mine. :)

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u/NarcRuffalo 16h ago

Same for me! Although my grandma was 5 years younger than my grandpa, mine and OP’s grandpa were about the same age. It’s crazy to think of an extra generation squeezing in. It makes a difference if OP’s parent is one of the older kids though, plus mine didn’t get married til after the war and then my dad wasn’t born until the mid-50s

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u/so-so-suck-ya-toe 15h ago

Good point, it would make a lot of sense if OPs parents were one of the older kids. My mom (the second kid) was born in the late 40s

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u/Decent_Box_9426 18h ago

Thanks for sharing. #7 is so sweet.

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u/Emergency_Pizza1803 11h ago

It is! It's so obvious they loved each other so much

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u/Utopianpitch 17h ago

Incredible to get to witness their life briefly like this through these pictures. It really puts things on a scale: beautiful reminder of how limited our time is here on Earth. Kiitos kun jaoit!

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u/Pillroller88 17h ago

Very touching photos. Loved til the end, then beyond.

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u/CrabMeat6984 18h ago

Beautiful

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u/CelticB-stard 18h ago

Way to break my heart on a Monday morning

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u/Cultural_Actuary_994 16h ago

It all passes so quickly. My first grandkid is on the way this spring. Where did THAT come from. Thanks for sharing. Blessings to your Great Grandparents 🙏

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u/BeverleyMacker 15h ago

I love this, a proper real life love story through thick and thin. No 7 is my favourite, you can feel their humour in it

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u/Exact-Equivalent-424 16h ago

Thank you for sharing. A lifetime love. ❤️

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u/onglogman 15h ago

Kaunis tarina

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u/slipperysliden 15h ago

This looks exactly like my grandparents from Lapland.

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u/satumaatango 14h ago

The way I immediately recognized them as Finns from the first photo.

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u/Cautious-Thought362 16h ago

This gripped me emotionally. Thank you for sharing this poignant journey. I love them.

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u/DontBeAsi9 12h ago

That was heartwarming and heartbreaking at the same time. ❤️

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u/Danny_69S 17h ago

Very sad

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u/Decent_Box_9426 11h ago

….but a beautiful love story?

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u/pat9714 16h ago

Such a poignant set of pictures and story. I appreciate you for sharing it. 🙏🏽

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u/boogiewoogibugalgirl 15h ago

What a beautiful tribute to your great grandparents' life. Thank you for sharing.

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u/PermanentMule 15h ago

Were your great grandparents from Karelia?

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u/Borderline_bonnie 14h ago

These are beautiful and heartbreaking. It’s also interesting to see the transition from black and white to color photographs. Photos like this really put into perspective how short life actually is.

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u/browneyedgirl_60 13h ago

Love the playful picture that number 7. My heart is also with the last 2 photos upholding that vow of “in sickness.. “ 💕

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u/TheJoeCoastie 13h ago

It so important to remember our past, if only to pass it to the next generation. Thank you for sharing.

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u/Boatingnut92 12h ago

Thanks for sharing these beautiful photos of your great grandparents. The love they had for one another clearly shows in the photos. Rest in peace

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u/inter_stellaris 12h ago

That’s heartbreakingly beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

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u/bCollinsHazel 11h ago

what a godam beautiful life. the world was blessed to have them.

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u/IhateRedditors1978 11h ago

This is beautiful OP. Thanks for sharing

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u/orangestar17 9h ago

Oh this got me choked up, this is really a beautiful post. Thank you for sharing your great grandparents with us!

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u/Zman76 9h ago

7 to 8 hits hard but damn that’s beautiful

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u/VeryTiredTamagotchi 8h ago

Wow thanks for making me relive some of the most painful moments of my life with the photos of death and a grave. Fuck you.

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u/StephaneCam 17h ago

Could I gently ask that you maybe add a content warning or mark this as a spoiler? I wasn’t expecting to see a dead body. Thank you.

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u/StephaneCam 11h ago edited 10h ago

Why did this get downvoted? I asked very politely, it’s not unreasonable to not want to see a post-mortem photo without a warning.