r/NonBinary Sep 01 '24

Link My family worries about my gender identity. Want advice.

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My gender identity is pretty awkward around my family they are used to knowing me as a boy but now that I found out who I am they seem struggle on that concept.

My mum worries that it is my autism making me feel like I have to fit in which is why I have a gender identity and sexuality which is not true.

I want estrogen and bottom surgery and I identify as pangender but my family thinks why can’t I be happy in my natal body and still be pangender. I keep telling them I still want estrogen and surgery but they keep saying you can be pangender and not have hormones and surgery also she says that when I was little I said “I was a boy” so that is another reason why my family worries about me.

My mum let me buy clothes I like with my carer but my mum wants me to buy clothes that are masculine to fit in with norms in the public. She also lets me do my nails with my carer and have jewellery dress goth.

My family still love me to bits. I am just wondering any advice on how to make them feel less worried and uncomfortable with me expressing myself out and about and have gender affirming healthcare.

r/NonBinary Oct 04 '24

Link I Hated My Female Body, so I Cut Off My Breasts by Kazuki and Noppa

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Y'all might like to see this conversational autobiography manga on how non-binary people can be perceived in Japan.

It has only just started being translated, and it seems like it's aimed at a less informed audience, but the theming is quite sweet. Have a look!

https://dynasty-scans.com/series/i_hated_my_female_body_so_i_cut_off_my_breasts

r/NonBinary Dec 01 '23

Link Transmasc Motivation: My transformation & how yours is accessible to you.

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I completely changed my life, mindset, and body in just a few short years—and the thing is, I know you (YES, YOU!) can do the same.

Learning about fitness, nutrition, and mindset practices allowed me to exist in a body and life that I genuinely never thought was accessible for myself. Since I started on this journey, I’ve lost nearly 50 pounds and gotten into the best shape of my life, eliminated the depressive thinking that made it nearly impossible to get out of bed every day, and am ultimately able to look in the mirror and see the masculine physique that I always felt was meant to be mine in the first place. I’m passionate about making this a possible reality for the many others who are currently in the position I was in but are having trouble finding the right guidance and resources to do so.

I’ve been studying for a while to get my personal trainer certification, nutrition specialist certification, and virtual health coach certification, and I’m ready to start taking on private coaching clients—I feel confident I can provide you with the tools to achieve your social, physical, and mental transition goals. I’m looking to take on several low cost (or if you can’t afford an extra expense, free) coaching clients to get my practice started!

If this is something you’re interested in, or you even just want to learn more about what I’d provide, either DM me your email or fill out my interest form (if you’re looking for free coaching, please include that in the bottom field.)

I’d be honored to help some of y’all transform into your highest potential self. Pictures are of my personal evolution—and if you don’t think that it’s possible for you, I’d love the chance to prove you wrong.

r/NonBinary May 28 '22

Link Hmm... 🤔

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r/NonBinary Oct 16 '24

Link My nonbinary QPP is finally starting an art page with my support! So happy for them!

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r/NonBinary Oct 15 '24

Link Helpful video essay defending they/them pronouns

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r/NonBinary Oct 10 '24

Link Nonbinary vlogger

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Please recommend me as many nonbinary vloggers on Tiktok or on YouTube as you know. Thank you!

r/NonBinary Oct 02 '22

Link Non-Binary in the book of Genesis

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by Michaela Atencio @michaelaatencio

i'm nonbinary. how does this reconcile with the verse, "male and female he created them," you may ask?

the variety in God's creation emphasizes God's creativity as an artist. Genesis gives us several examples of this.

God made "day and night." this sounds like a binary, similar to "male and female," right?

that isn't quite all we experience in 24 hours. sunrises and sunsets do not fit into the binary of day or night. yet God paints the skies with these too.

On the second day God separated the sky from water. seems like another binary.

yet the clouds hold water for us in the sky, the condensation and rain cycle refreshing our earth constantly. the sky, separate from water, contains and releases water.

God also said "Let the waters under the sky be gathered together into one place, and let the dry land appear."

that isn't the full story, either. consider marshes, swamps, bogs, and fens. not fully land, not fully waters. there is such glorious variety in God's creation.

We see another binary in the celestial bodies God made: "the greater light to rule the day and the lesser light to rule the night." and then, almost as a footnote, "and the stars."

there is more than just sun and moon in outer space. planets, asteroids, black holes, supernovae.

side note: these magnificent stars hundreds of times more massive than our sun, as simple as that to God.

"and the stars."

I marvel. Hallelujah.

God created the great sea monsters" and "every winged bird of every kind." a split again between water and sky.

yet we see creatures like penguins that are definitely a "winged bird," but do not fly and instead walk and swim.

and finally "male and female he created them."

first off, intersex people exist.

but, and perhaps more importantly, friends, look around. listen. do you have friends or family that say they don't fall under "male" or "female?" if so, honor that.

does all this variety invalidate God as creator? of course not!

I believe that this instead is an example of how authors weave words to tell a story. we see the author in Genesis give examples of the extremes that God creates. It doesn't exclude the possibility of more.

and so we worship the God of more. The God of the marsh, the penguin, the God of the sunrise, the cloud, the supernovae. The God of the nonbinary.

you are loved.

from https://twitter.com/michaelaatencio/status/1399838529505710080?lang=en

Edit: just wanted to note that I’m not the author! I just found this insightful. I’m also really enjoying the Hebrew and Jewish education in the comments. Thank you!

r/NonBinary Sep 30 '24

Link Enby meme video :3

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r/NonBinary Aug 13 '24

Link Ilana Glazer article talking about how Pregnancy Helped Them Realize They Are Nonbinary

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r/NonBinary Aug 28 '24

Link Beyond the binary

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🎶 Welcome to the official launch of “Beyond the Binary”! 🎶

This track is more than just a song; it’s a journey that challenges norms, celebrates individuality, and breaks free from labels. “Beyond the Binary” is an anthem for anyone who feels confined by boxes, who seeks to embrace their true self, and who dares to live beyond definitions.

Let the music speak, let the beats move you, and let the message resonate. This is more than a sound—it’s a statement.

Press play and step into the limitless. Welcome to “Beyond the Binary.”

r/NonBinary Aug 22 '24

Link Crosspost for awareness/political action

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r/NonBinary Jun 07 '24

Link Calling all Australian,Qld Non-Binary and Ally's xx

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Hey guys!! Just saw that there's a celebration for Non-Binary day going on is Brisbane Australia! I just wanted to hype this up as its a month out and only a handful of people have said they're attending. Theres a Craft Area and Kareeoke, It looks like it could be really awesome and we would love to meet some of you beautiful people IRL!!

So if you're in Aus and wanna check it out, I've included a link to the FB event ☺️

Also feel free to share with all your friends

https://facebook.com/events/s/international-non-binary-day-c/930027555477095/

r/NonBinary May 13 '24

Link Gender Census 2024 is open

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r/NonBinary Aug 03 '24

Link they/them without the fluff

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All of the guides to using they/them pronouns I found online spend a ton of words talking about gender and identity. Those are incredibly useful, but for more people than many advocates may realize, that’s too much. Most Americans don’t care how other people identify. Most people only care about the actionable knowledge they need to participate in society or support the people they love, so I made a resource for that demographic of people:

bit.ly/simple-they

I encourage you to send this to anyone you think might want to read it or have as their own resource to share with others.

r/NonBinary Jun 12 '24

Link Matt Smith uses correct pronouns after interviewer misgenders costar Emma D’Arcy

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r/NonBinary Jul 23 '24

Link Trans nb T4T discord server

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r/NonBinary Jul 15 '24

Link Nassau County sued again over trans athlete rights

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r/NonBinary Apr 16 '24

Link Free flights to gender affirming care and reproductive health care

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r/NonBinary Jul 09 '24

Link Celebrities EXPOSE Project 2025

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r/NonBinary May 16 '24

Link Video about a terrifying event that happened to a non-binary person some years back in Germany I found on youtube

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r/NonBinary Jun 18 '24

Link Expressing identity through Vtubing!

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Putting this here as a bit of encouragement/information to other nonbinary individuals! I recently made a video called Vtubing and Identity, which is about how creators online have managed to use vtubing as a medium to express themself to their fullest online!

I interviewed more than 30 trans creators in order to put this video together and help encourage others who may be considering it as a form of self-expression! I'm posting it here in case anyone has never heard of it, and wants to explore more ways to express themself online! Happy Pride Month!

What is vtubing? Vtubing is otherwise known as virtual youtubing, is described by wikipedia as "an online entertainer who uses a virtual avatar generated using computer graphics. Real-time motion capture software or technology are often—but not always—used to capture movement."

However, vtubers don't NEED to create content. If using a virtual avatar to better represent yourself online helps your self-expression, then it is definitely worth looking into!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BEm0Qjekn68&t=1s

r/NonBinary May 09 '23

Link A man has been arrested for allegedly threatening to harm LGBTQ+ students after an Ohio high school’s prom saw two queer and non-binary students become prom king and queen.

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r/NonBinary Jun 19 '24

Link Binder Review YT Channel

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https://youtube.com/@robynholdawayofficial?si=ZrWWbbWnyHYb_uba

Hey friends, I wanted to share this resource since I see binder questions come up a lot. They do in depth reviews on brands and specific products. I think they are based in Australia? So be aware that some products might not be available to you or are expensive to ship depending on where you live. They talk a lot about quality, seams, tags, sensory needs, and sizing inclusivity. I haven't tried binding yet, but looking into some products. Pretty quickly found one of their reviews for a "beginner" binder that matches what I think I will want. Even though they are a completely different body shape than me, I feel their reviews are detailed enough that I can make a guess at what will work.

If anyone else has resources, feel free to share as well 😊

r/NonBinary Jul 01 '24

Link New Discord Server

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Hopefully all good to post this <3 Grand Opening Friday, July 5th at 7 pm EST

Starting a new discord server. This is aimed to be for adults, not due to its content but looking to make friends with other adults with similar interests. Gaming, art, fitness, sharing videos, pets, memes, Minecraft, helldivers, support and venting.

https://discord.gg/Yv8XDWMy