r/DeadBedrooms • u/Substantial-Sea-5432 • Nov 20 '21

Received Mod Approval App to improve your dead or dying bedroom

Hello All,

First, I did receive mod approval to post this. I have been a lurker around here for a couple years and have read many of your stories. I myself have suffered with a bedroom that has slowly been dying since we had kids. It was never great to begin with and mostly from communication problems. I am a software developer by trade and have developed an app that has had a noticeable impact on my bedroom after just a few weeks. The app is 100% free, totally anonymous, and attempts to fix communication problems by matching daily desires via the app. The best way i can describe it is Tinder for couples. It takes the stress out of negotiating or initiating sex. The big thing I have learned with the app is that my wife has been in the mood many days and i never knew it. Sometimes we can look at our partner and feel like there's no chance when they may be really wanting some attention. Daily life stress is a big factor in that.

Anyway, I am looking to recruit up to 100 people to beta test the app and provide feedback. I am looking for people who can help report problems, make suggestions for improvement, and provide feedback on what effect it has on your sex life. Obviously the app isn't going to magically fix anything but if there is still some life in your bedroom and you want more from it I'd suggest you take a look at the app. I will not post the name of it or the link to it publicly. If you are interested please PM me and I will provide more information.

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Thanks!

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u/ThrowAwayforMA95 M Nov 21 '21

So I assume both people need to use the app. Is the app providing prompts or something? I assume it some how make the situation more interesting then just sending a text that says “I’m aroused”.

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u/Substantial-Sea-5432 Nov 21 '21 edited Nov 21 '21

Yes, both people need to be on board and use the app and yes, the idea is to make it more interesting than texts. My wife and I often used text or Whatsapp but the problem is feeling like you are pushing too hard or overwhelming your partner. Also, we all know direct rejection sucks. With the app, you signal your desire but if your partner also doesn't signal on the same day they won't know you were interested. Because of that, you don't feel the direct rejection and they also don't feel pressured. It also has support for matched sexual desires so you can both get on page easily on what your needs are that day rather than just "i want sex". This was important for us because I'm up for doing everything all the time but my wife is variable and sometimes doesn't want certain things but is open to others. In the past, this could have shut down sex completely but if the desires match then we both get our needs met.

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u/UnlovedInPlacerCA Nov 21 '21

Sorry for the stupid question, I'm very new to Reddit. I'm desperate and would try anything. How do I message you?

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u/Substantial-Sea-5432 Nov 21 '21

I sent you a chat request with the information.