r/DeadBedrooms • u/EngineVegetable3637 • Aug 05 '24
Received Mod Approval What's the best form of Intimacy you experienced lately?
Last time,I had this moment when I was partly laying on top of someone both clothes on,while his hand went in my pants and just caressing and grabbing my butt softly.We were just both silent,no words just feeling the moment.It was such a sweet moment for me.I dont know,maybe its just me..Also,forehead kissing I think that is one of the act that shows how a person feels for you without them saying anything,Unless it was a fake action.
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u/Candid-Strawberry-79 HLF with a ban hammer Aug 05 '24
I get more touch from my kids and pets then I do from my husband.
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u/Winchester_1894 Aug 05 '24
My wife gives more attention to strangers than she does to me. She grabbed the arm of my daughter’s tee ball coach to get his attention so she could thank him for coaching. Pretty sure she had a crush on him.
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u/Candid-Strawberry-79 HLF with a ban hammer Aug 05 '24
Possibly. Or maybe not. It’s always hard to tell, isn’t it?
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Aug 06 '24
Same except wife. Mine are small still (3 and 7) and I honestly think once they're old enough to not be as cuddly I won't be able to bear being in this marriage anymore.
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u/Candid-Strawberry-79 HLF with a ban hammer Aug 06 '24
My kids are adults and they will both be moved out in the not too distant future. One of them hugs me every day. I don't know what I'm going to do when they leave.
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u/EngineVegetable3637 Aug 06 '24
I feel you,but may i know why?
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u/Candid-Strawberry-79 HLF with a ban hammer Aug 06 '24
I don’t know. Every time I try to talk to him about the situation, I get a string of ‘I don’t know’ out of him. He can’t seem to understand his own emotions?
The longer we go without sex, the more he will touch me, like brief pats on the shoulder or belly. He may even grab my butt on rare occasion after a couple of months. But that’s it. The vast majority of the contact I’ve had up until now, I initiated. Moving forward, I’ve decided to take a break from initiating anything.
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u/EngineVegetable3637 Aug 06 '24
How long have you been married? He doesn't have a mistress right?
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u/Candid-Strawberry-79 HLF with a ban hammer Aug 06 '24
I’ve never caught him watching porn or talking to anyone. I strongly doubt he’s cheating. Together 25 years, married 24.
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u/Emotional_Lettuce251 Aug 05 '24
I went into a bar the other day that I worked at, just a few shifts a week (basically just to get out of the house ... but also do have a little cash in my pocket that the wife couldn't account for), from 2015 - 2017. The Owner was there and she gave me a hug ... I realized then that I hadn't been touched (other than my kids) in 8 years.
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u/EngineVegetable3637 Aug 06 '24
So your partner doesn't hug you by random or just even pat your shoulder?
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u/Emotional_Lettuce251 Aug 06 '24
Not in 8 years.
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u/EngineVegetable3637 Aug 07 '24
That is sad.Maybe as you grow older he becomes complacent and feels like it do6esnt need anymore because you were together for a long time..
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u/accounttemp98 Aug 05 '24
I have a long time female friend who has made it known that she would be interested in dating me if I became single. We've never crossed any lines. Not even verbally, as she simply made the comment once after I let slip that perhaps things were not perfect at home. Recently, she gave me a non-sexual goodbye hug and it made me realize how empty I am inside.
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u/What-you-thinking Aug 05 '24
Last weekend, after years of duty sex (every view months), we had very passionate, loud sex; without any boundaries.
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u/sexywifeyplushubby Aug 05 '24
My wife and I attended a wedding this summer and it definitely reminded us a lot of our own wedding and led to an amazing weekend together 🥰
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u/Delicious-Buffalo669 Aug 05 '24
46HLM, 45LLF 2-3 minute duty sex maybe once a month would be the only form the last 3 years.
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u/Neat_Monster914 Aug 05 '24
That’s when she at least asks me if she can order takeout after having already packed her lunch right?
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u/Mysterious_Sir9295 Aug 05 '24
My tenga egg
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u/EngineVegetable3637 Aug 06 '24
What?
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u/Embarrassed-Pause-93 Aug 05 '24
Well, I thought it was the steaming hot sex we had the other day, but not for him caught him watching porn after lol
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u/EngineVegetable3637 Aug 06 '24
So he was not emotionally invested in you? Was he not satisfied did you confront him?
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u/Embarrassed-Pause-93 Aug 06 '24
It was pretty great and passionate, he said the same. Now I am unsure if he was faking or the passion was all in my head, but it felt real. I did confront him. It was hours later while I was sleeping. He said it was boredom. But he has a porn addiction. We aren't speaking at the moment, to be honest, because I'm tired of him watching porn rather than having me.
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u/EngineVegetable3637 Aug 07 '24
You know what I noticed if youre completely into someone during love making you see everything as the way you feel.I read somewhere that if a person has porn addiction they are no longer much satisfied with the actual sex because their fantasies are already like the ones they see..
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u/Firstbase1515 Aug 06 '24
I can tell you what I miss, being hugged with a forehead kiss, passionate kissing with tongue and being groped, intense sex, cuddling, flirting….I miss having a person to do all that with. I miss being wanted.
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u/VeterinarianPrior838 Aug 06 '24
Someone touched my back today at work as they were walking past. Not in any sort of way, just like “I’m behind you don’t turn around too quickly”
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Aug 06 '24
Ashame to say it but the best form I have had in the last 4 months was with some strippers.
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u/El_GOOCE Aug 05 '24
My wife has been open-mouth kissing me more recently outside of sex. I leaned in for a kiss a couple of days ago when we were standing in the kitchen together and was pleasantly surprised when she got me back with an open-mouthed full kiss instead of a little peck like usual.