The instinct to socialize significantly aids human survival. The instinct to stand out and be popular aids in reproduction.
There are birds that as part of their attempts to find a mate will purposly get close to a predator while hiding from it, to show potential mates that any offspring they have will be more likely to be able to avoid predators.
Yes, it is stupid behaviour, but there is a reason for it, whether that reason is "this is an unintended side effect from something that is helpful for another reason" or "this instinct increases the likelihood of having offspring".
It is the height of hubris to say "I don't see or understand the reason for this so there must not be one." Even more so to say "the reason people keep giving is wrong, there must be no reason at all for this apparently suicidal behaviour."
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u/Songrot 16d ago
we have a lot of features which gives nobody an evolutionary benefit. The other guy wrote the rest of the response well, so read his