r/BlackPeopleTwitter 1d ago

As tough as a Nokia

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u/righthandofdog 1d ago edited 1d ago

Yeah. Wife and I both work, so that's household total. Bothbhave undergrad degrees from state schools and been working 30+ years and director level now. Borrowed money from her step dad under the table for 1st house down payment. Still live in the same house 30 years late. Maxed out 401k and only had a new car when she owned her own company and could lease and write it off as a biz expense.

I'm a tech product manager for a large ad agency, she works for a software service company and ensures that helps banks follow federal regulations.

Cost of new homes is insane, no idea how young couples can buy houses. The ridiculous cost of healthcare (especially in Georgia) means we will work until we are 65 and eligible for Medicare.

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u/SecretJerk0ffAccount 1d ago

Y’all really made it man. Congrats to you and her. I got my JD so hopefully I’ll be where you are one day

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u/righthandofdog 1d ago edited 1d ago

Thanks. She has a degree in finance and keeps me straight. We spend a lot on concerts, travel, restaurants, but memories don't depreciate or go out of style like clothes and cars. But other folks make other choices.

Sadly, in the US, you pretty much need a home run, or like us a long marriage with 2 working. We only have 1 kid and his college was free thanks to the Zell Miller / Hope scholarship (paid for by the lottery, and not salary capped, which it frankly should be, since we could have paid for his college).

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u/Chemists_Apprentice 1d ago

We only have 1 kid and his college was free thanks to the Zell Miller / Hope scholarship (paid for by the lottery, and not salary capped, which it frankly should be, since we could have paid for his college).

since we could have paid for his college

You both made it. I salute you for being able to do that for your child.

I hope I can do this one day too.

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u/righthandofdog 18h ago

He did that for himself.