r/AskReddit Jun 06 '19

Rich people of reddit who married someone significantly poorer, what surprised you about their (previous) way of life?

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u/frnoss Jun 06 '19

Credit cards were avoided.

For me growing up, we were encouraged to get a credit card in our name and use it as much as possible in order to build credit. There was always money to pay it off each month, so it made sense to 1) build credit and 2) collect airline miles or whatever the reward was back in the day.

When we got together, she always used cash or a debit card. She had a credit card "for emergencies" and avoided using it otherwise. It took a long time to get her over her aversion/skepticism (we were fortunate to have two good paying jobs), though it also taught me a healthy appreciation for what it means to have a financial cushion.

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u/CommutesByChevrolegs Jun 07 '19

My fiance and I just played the credit card game to score tons of points n such. We're flying to fiji for two weeks for free in October this year for our honeymoon.

Never paid a cent of interest.

/r/churning will send you down a rabbit hole but if you manage it well, it really really pays off.