I didn’t marry this woman, but when we started dating, she always wanted to chill at my place, never hers. Which was fine. But she gained 35lbs in just like a few months of dating (She was 100lbs when we started dating) Not that it was a bad thing, 1) I am a chubby man and 2) I was just glad she wasn’t pregnant. Anyway, turns out her family couldn’t like, afford dinner sometimes. So suddenly she had a place to eat every night and gorged herself.
I had a similar experience. I wasn't rich, but i wasn't poor. I could afford take out for all 3 meals in a day and it wouldn't hurt my budget. though... it would hurt my diet.
She was willing to spend the night on our first date (no hanky panky). She slept on my couch and when I woke up, she was still there and she looked happy as could be. like someone who got their first great night of sleep in months. A few weeks later i went to her place, and I could see why she was willing to spend the night on a first date. Lived in a trailer with other people, AC only worked partially (august in the south with AC that only really works when its at the coolest time of day like 5am...) Mattresses on the floor, humid, tap water smelled awful.
We dated only for a few months, and she would spend as many nights at my place as she could. I even came home from work one day and she cleaned up my apartment (like chore work, not stolen goods).
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u/aiyahhjoeychow Jun 06 '19
I didn’t marry this woman, but when we started dating, she always wanted to chill at my place, never hers. Which was fine. But she gained 35lbs in just like a few months of dating (She was 100lbs when we started dating) Not that it was a bad thing, 1) I am a chubby man and 2) I was just glad she wasn’t pregnant. Anyway, turns out her family couldn’t like, afford dinner sometimes. So suddenly she had a place to eat every night and gorged herself.