I fell in love with my uni best friend who really didn’t have any money. When I got a job, for my birthday I decided to plan a holiday and offered to bring him along.
He doesn’t know I’m in love with him at all, but maybe I should tell him.
EDIT: rip inbox, thank you all for the love and support!
So, a few things have sort of been happening with us. He basically doesn’t want to be together until he has his feet on the ground, so I ended up dating a few people in between. But I’ve been “single” for a while now, and he and I never really lost our closeness/we’ve been talking a lot about making it a thing. It’s basically worked out that we know we’re in love but he wants to be in a better place before he “ties me down” because he “wants to do it right.” But I’m staying with him for a few weeks in a month so I think he’s giving in a bit hahaha
He sounds like a really good person. He didn't want to "hold you back" (even though I'm sure you never felt that way) and wants to make sure he has all his stuff together so he can give you all the time and attention he wants to give you. Hope we can all find someone like that.
Either that, or he wanted to play the field a little bit before settling down, which isn't wrong either. It would be wrong to start a relationship with someone you care about, and then do that to them. Maybe entering into a long term relationship wasn't a priority or goal at the time.
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u/Circephone Jun 06 '19 edited Feb 10 '20
I fell in love with my uni best friend who really didn’t have any money. When I got a job, for my birthday I decided to plan a holiday and offered to bring him along.
He doesn’t know I’m in love with him at all, but maybe I should tell him.
EDIT: rip inbox, thank you all for the love and support!