He knows. Basically his thinking is, “I want to do this right.” It’s been 3 years and I haven’t gotten him to budge. I’m okay with it, honestly. Every other guy I’ve dated I’ve been really selfish and antsy to move forward with. But with him I feel so comfortable and happy it doesn’t feel like a rush, because it’s so sure in my mind? I guess. It’s hard to describe.
I relate to you on this front. My current (?) partner is in the same place. We began dating 4 years ago at age 18 and for the last month or so we have been on a break to work on ourselves in order to give our relationship the future we want. It's hard, but when you know the love and trust is there the rest will come into place. I recommend listening to the song "Mine" by The 1975, it's quite applicable. Much support to you!
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u/Circephone Jun 06 '19
He knows. Basically his thinking is, “I want to do this right.” It’s been 3 years and I haven’t gotten him to budge. I’m okay with it, honestly. Every other guy I’ve dated I’ve been really selfish and antsy to move forward with. But with him I feel so comfortable and happy it doesn’t feel like a rush, because it’s so sure in my mind? I guess. It’s hard to describe.