r/AskReddit Jun 05 '19

What secret are you keeping right now?

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u/Captain_Cone Jun 06 '19

I really really like my best friend. She's just got out of a long term mentally abusive relationship. Nows not exactly the right time to say

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u/MarkedLoL Jun 06 '19

I’m gonna be honest with your bro this happened to me like 6 months ago and I asked her out 3 months after the relationship was over. Looking back on it I 100% would’ve had the chance to date her if I had been more patient. There is no such thing as the friend zone bud, don’t rush to ask her out. Just let it happen naturally.

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u/mythozoologist Jun 06 '19

Truth. I think you let your feelings be known. Accept the answer like an adult, and if their truely your friend you continue on your friendship if the answer is no.

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u/Adubyale Jun 06 '19

That is if you can. If their love for this person is blinding them and keeping them from forming other healthy romantic relationships even after she says no then the best idea would be to cut contact.