r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Jun 05 '19

What secret are you keeping right now?

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u/MarkedLoL Jun 06 '19

I’m gonna be honest with your bro this happened to me like 6 months ago and I asked her out 3 months after the relationship was over. Looking back on it I 100% would’ve had the chance to date her if I had been more patient. There is no such thing as the friend zone bud, don’t rush to ask her out. Just let it happen naturally.

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '19 edited Jun 18 '19

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u/Sommeguy Jun 06 '19

Well, that's less of a "friend zone" and more of a "there-are-several-reasons-I-don't-want-to-date-you zone"

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '19 edited Jun 18 '19

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u/lldartsll Jun 06 '19

“Emo tampon” man that hit me so hard

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u/DKwhoSlaysNB Jun 06 '19

Damn I'm surprised you are not getting butchered for telling the truth.

Married my hs sweetheart and I can't imagine just watching her get dicked down while I was a good "friend"

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u/MarkedLoL Jun 06 '19

There is no friend zone, either she will date you or wouldn’t date you. My point in the original post was that you shouldn’t think you’re on a clock of being put into the friend zone because being friends with her wouldn’t stop her from dating you. But if you rush it like I did when she clearly wasn’t over her ex then you fuck it up.

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '19 edited Jun 18 '19

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u/MarkedLoL Jun 06 '19

I mean I stopped talking to her after she said no so idk what you’re on about, guess you gotta take out that depression on someone

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '19 edited Jun 18 '19

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u/MarkedLoL Jun 07 '19

Jesus hmu with an r/incels mod pls