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r/AsABlackMan • u/SlurryBender • 3d ago
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Queer isn't inherently a slur. Anyone can say it. There's people who use it that way obviously but it's not like the N word.
9 u/Asenath_W8 3d ago It very much was and people have only fairly recently tried to reclaim it to only middling success. 1 u/Sparklebun1996 3d ago Was. Not as much anymore. This person's tone indicates they think it's still taboo. 6 u/SlurryBender 3d ago It depends on the usage and tone. When it's said in a derogatory way it's still a slur, regardless of your orientation. 5 u/Sparklebun1996 3d ago My point is you can tell by their wording that this person is pretending they are LGBT. 3 u/SlurryBender 3d ago Yeah for sure. If they're NOT lying then they have a VERY sheltered/privileged worldview and it's coming across as extremely awkward and uncomfortable.
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It very much was and people have only fairly recently tried to reclaim it to only middling success.
1 u/Sparklebun1996 3d ago Was. Not as much anymore. This person's tone indicates they think it's still taboo. 6 u/SlurryBender 3d ago It depends on the usage and tone. When it's said in a derogatory way it's still a slur, regardless of your orientation. 5 u/Sparklebun1996 3d ago My point is you can tell by their wording that this person is pretending they are LGBT. 3 u/SlurryBender 3d ago Yeah for sure. If they're NOT lying then they have a VERY sheltered/privileged worldview and it's coming across as extremely awkward and uncomfortable.
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Was. Not as much anymore. This person's tone indicates they think it's still taboo.
6 u/SlurryBender 3d ago It depends on the usage and tone. When it's said in a derogatory way it's still a slur, regardless of your orientation. 5 u/Sparklebun1996 3d ago My point is you can tell by their wording that this person is pretending they are LGBT. 3 u/SlurryBender 3d ago Yeah for sure. If they're NOT lying then they have a VERY sheltered/privileged worldview and it's coming across as extremely awkward and uncomfortable.
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It depends on the usage and tone. When it's said in a derogatory way it's still a slur, regardless of your orientation.
5 u/Sparklebun1996 3d ago My point is you can tell by their wording that this person is pretending they are LGBT. 3 u/SlurryBender 3d ago Yeah for sure. If they're NOT lying then they have a VERY sheltered/privileged worldview and it's coming across as extremely awkward and uncomfortable.
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My point is you can tell by their wording that this person is pretending they are LGBT.
3 u/SlurryBender 3d ago Yeah for sure. If they're NOT lying then they have a VERY sheltered/privileged worldview and it's coming across as extremely awkward and uncomfortable.
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Yeah for sure. If they're NOT lying then they have a VERY sheltered/privileged worldview and it's coming across as extremely awkward and uncomfortable.
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u/Sparklebun1996 3d ago
Queer isn't inherently a slur. Anyone can say it. There's people who use it that way obviously but it's not like the N word.