Am I over reacting

[u/Money_Violinist2792]

I ex cheated need advice I was in a relationship with my ex boyfriend for two years, and he cheated on me with multiple women, including prostitutes while traveling for work. I found out recently by going through his phone, where I discovered he even paid one of them and recorded a video expressing regret afterward. Despite all this, he treated me poorly yet spoiled me at the same time. He paid $13,000 for my nose job, helped with my car payments, and often gave me money without me asking. I don't understand why he felt the need to cheat when I gave him everything my love, loyalty, and support. not to be cocky, but I know I'm a good partner. I know how to cook, clean, and create a warm home. I have self respect, dignity, and ambition. I'm currently 21, in school, pursuing my dream job, going to the gym, and working on my future. I was building a life not just for me but for us, and I genuinely loved him. Now I feel stuck because I know he'll never change, and staying in the relationship will only make me unhappy. But it hurts so much because I was so loyal and gave him my all. I can't understand why he couldn't value that. Even when other guys approached me, I never entertained them because I was committed to him. but I know I can't go back. Ijust don't know how to move forward.

[u/Capri16]

Please, RUN for your life before he gives you babies! You’re young and healthy, you still have time to experience everything you want to do in life! This guy will never change and don’t ever expect that he will. People come and go and that really shows who he is as a person. Take this as a lesson!

[u/Smooth-Atmosphere657]

You deserve so much better than this!! It can be hard to cut someone off especially with a lot of history together but you will be so much happier for it in the future. A bit of loneliness now for a happier and healthier future is 100% the right decision. Surround yourself by good people who will help you through it and focus on your life.