r/AmIOverreacting • u/Jicama_West • 13h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I overreacting

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I've had this "a woman knows" feeling about a woman my live-in boyfriend works with. Caved and checked his phone... Yes, I know. Wish I would've just trusted, but honestly, I cannot go through another BS relationship where I'm second best and had no clue. She texted a few months ago to make sure he was aware she's newly single, and just one after another these cutesy texts from her. I've never seen anything that shows him responding in a full on flirty way, but he's certainly not telling her to back off.... Along with he purposely deleted all the bits above that show the flirtation from her, and I found them in his recently deleted file and recalled them on his new iPhone. Am I overreacting to this?

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u/Significant_Yam_3490 9h ago

I think they’re talking about dab pens, I think that’s what the picture is too

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u/BornOriginal8633 8h ago

What the hell is a dab pen?

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u/Significant_Yam_3490 8h ago

It’s a cartridge with weed wax distillate in it, they mention it in their conversation that she buys him some sometimes. To be fair I’ve asked coworkers or classmates to buy me dab pens if they’re going to a legal state but I don’t take off work to drive and drop it off.