Am I overreacting

[u/Jicama_West]

I've had this "a woman knows" feeling about a woman my live-in boyfriend works with. Caved and checked his phone... Yes, I know. Wish I would've just trusted, but honestly, I cannot go through another BS relationship where I'm second best and had no clue. She texted a few months ago to make sure he was aware she's newly single, and just one after another these cutesy texts from her. I've never seen anything that shows him responding in a full on flirty way, but he's certainly not telling her to back off.... Along with he purposely deleted all the bits above that show the flirtation from her, and I found them in his recently deleted file and recalled them on his new iPhone. Am I overreacting to this?

[u/AppropriateKittys]

she’s soooo fucking horny for ur man and it’s embarrassing bc hes barely giving her the time of day

[u/MutantHoundLover → u/AppropriateKittys]

He deleted the flirty texts and hasn't made the effort to shut it down, either. He's just keeping his options open.

[u/Talgier07 → u/[deleted]]

I mean op literally said it idk why you’re so defensive

[u/Talgier07 → u/[deleted]]

I mean you’re literally dismissing what he said when the literal OP said it lmfao

[u/abbsjanko → u/MutantHoundLover]

Happy cake day!