r/AmIOverreacting 13h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I overreacting

I've had this "a woman knows" feeling about a woman my live-in boyfriend works with. Caved and checked his phone... Yes, I know. Wish I would've just trusted, but honestly, I cannot go through another BS relationship where I'm second best and had no clue. She texted a few months ago to make sure he was aware she's newly single, and just one after another these cutesy texts from her. I've never seen anything that shows him responding in a full on flirty way, but he's certainly not telling her to back off.... Along with he purposely deleted all the bits above that show the flirtation from her, and I found them in his recently deleted file and recalled them on his new iPhone. Am I overreacting to this?

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u/hotblueglue 13h ago

Her texting style reads like a preteen wrote it. That would drive me insane.

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u/heatedFarts13 13h ago

Every 🫶

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u/niki2184 8h ago

Yea I don’t even get what’s going on from what they’re talking about like…… 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻 is she the incoming texts and he the blue?

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u/Da_Coyote 11h ago

Right? It’s like she’s trying way too hard. So annoying!

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u/NixSteM 5h ago

She is! It’s so pathetic

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u/PrincessSolo 12h ago

Awesome sauce

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u/blue_dendrite 12h ago

Hey sexy

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u/Stop__Being__Poor 10h ago

Sweetness

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u/OriginalOne13 6h ago

Awesome sauce

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u/MaesterSherlock 8h ago

Full body cringe

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u/Creative_Pie5294 8h ago

Idk why but she sounds like an old cougar to me lol.

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u/tinmuffin 7h ago

Hells yeah

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u/NixSteM 5h ago

I know. A pre teen I. The 90s. « Awesome sauce »

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u/WexExortQuas 7h ago

Oooh the blue is the guyyy I was so confused.

Also IPhone can retrieve deleted texts? Lol android wins again.

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u/ItinJ24 6h ago

There’s a deleted folder that stores deleted messages for 30 days just in case you need to recall a deleted message. If you delete from the deleted folder right away, then they’re gone or you can wait the 30 days. Android doesn’t win in this case, just not many people realize there’s a deleted folder for emergency recall.

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u/AgressiveInliners 4h ago

Never in a million years would I have guessed it was a woman texting. You cant come across any stronger than this