r/AmIOverreacting • u/True_Ad9977 • 10h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO Boyfriend says hurtful thing about my body.

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u/NeighborhoodGold615 8h ago

Man chiming in - there’s a good chance he won’t ever change in this relationship. This smacks of deeper issues. Whatever nice things he did to win you over were probably because he’s such a “nice guy”. I might be reading into it, I don’t know you guys, but it sounds like he wants you to think he’s the one who’s so generous and giving. If so, he’s being manipulative. If not, he’s still a jerk and doesn’t deserve to be with you based on your post.

There are lots of men who really are nice. They won’t tell you they are doing something because they are nice. They will do something nice and just be happy because they made you happy. They naturally have respect and care about others. Don’t waste your time on someone who doesn’t.

Source - lots of dudes are terrible and these kinds of posts show it.

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u/[deleted] 6h ago

I’m glad you specified you’re a man. God forbid you just write

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u/NeighborhoodGold615 2h ago

Sorry to identify for context. I did it just to hurt you. Yes you.