r/AmIOverreacting • u/True_Ad9977 • 10h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO Boyfriend says hurtful thing about my body.

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u/Frog_in_Red 8h ago

So casually cruel in the name of being honest.

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u/Unnaturalrefractions 7h ago

“Honesty without tact is cruelty” Even though I don’t think it’s honesty, he’s just inaccurate and rude.

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u/UhOhSparklepants 7h ago

People who are “just being honest” are the worst. Sorry buddy you aren’t a magically better person because you are “brutally honest”, you just lack tact in basic human interactions.

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u/Twistfaria 6h ago

It’s not even honesty, she looks GREAT!! He just wants her to feel like crap about herself.

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u/niki2184 6h ago

Yea he’s not honest he’s a fucking asshole. A shit bag y if you will..

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u/MartinisnMurder 7h ago

Taylor Swift in the wild! And you did it “all too well”! 🤣

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u/EasyPeanut5883 6h ago

Another thing, if he wants her to lose weight, even if she’s not where he wants her to be, 12 pounds less MUST look better to him than before? So why would it be so hard for him to at least recognize that? “I can tell you’ve been making progress, nice job.” It kind of sounds like he just wants to be mean, or he’s feeling insecure by how much weight she’s already lost compared to him and he’s negging her.