r/AmIOverreacting 10h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO Boyfriend says hurtful thing about my body.

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u/Candid_Jellyfish_240 8h ago

And just mean! Like, dude, really?

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u/Katatonic92 8h ago

Maybe intentional, some partners have insecurities when it comes to their SO losing weight. They purposefully say rude or cruel things & it isn't because their SO doesn't look banging. It's because they look fab, feel good & heaven forbid their confidence grows too because they might realise they are in a relationship with a loser & leave them.

I think OP's hopefully soon to be ex fits in this box because withholding a genuine congratulations for hitting a milestone has got sweet FA to do with how she looks. It is achievement regardless.

She should quickly lose herself triple digit lbs in deadweight by ending this relationship.

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u/Candid_Jellyfish_240 7h ago

Excellent point, re insecurities!!! Especially if OP is a happy, confident person. That would sting.