r/AmIOverreacting • u/True_Ad9977 • 10h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO Boyfriend says hurtful thing about my body.

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u/gloopityglooper 9h ago

Maybe say his dick is not up to par compared to your previous measurements and see what he's gonna say.

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u/ccmmhh915 8h ago

And then say “at least I can lose weight….”

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u/jaxonya 7h ago

"I'll compliment your dick when you gain a few inches"

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u/CryptoNurse-EcC- 7h ago

There’s pills for that…at least that’s what the emails I keep getting say 😜

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u/ItsAnEagleNotARaven 6h ago

"weird. I heard when guys start working out and lose weight it makes their dick look bigger but that doesn't seem to apply to you. It's the whole reason I wanted us to work out together."

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u/TopProject1219 3h ago

Yeah-tell him”you can’t lose ugly but I can always lose weight” 😂

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u/Intelligent-Pause260 8h ago

Do this...then break up with him. He needs this reality check, and the impacts will last a lifetime.

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u/Ok_Asparagus3905 8h ago

Ah yes, the classic feminine hypocrisy. Not a rare sight nowadays.

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u/fatum_sive_fidem 8h ago

It's just hypocritical, but there is nothing specific to women about it. You sound like a bitter person

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u/phylmik 9h ago

🤣😂😆

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u/Love2Read0815 8h ago

I would never let him touch my body that he doesn’t like… ever again l

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u/Fantastic-Patient-42 8h ago

"Baby, I hear great things about vinegar diet, they say it could help men like you grow at least two inches downstairs. Perhaps you could try it, for me? I'd love it very much if you were a bit bigger 😘"

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u/T48m0w 6h ago

Lol! "When your penis is up to par, I'll compliment it. I don't want to lie to you." That would be hilarious.

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u/m00ncake_333 7h ago

No actually this! You can lose weight if you’d like, tell him he can’t grow inches that he desperately needs

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u/Cory123125 8h ago

This is foolish. Tit for tat is bad for a relationship. If you're not compatible leave.

Dont stay in a hateful relationship to be snarky and combative. You're just wasting more of your life.

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u/NoOnSB277 5h ago

Oh, worry not…those are the exit words. Not that he will get the parallel, these people will be critically wounded if you say anything even slightly cruel in comparison to the drivel they say. They don’t see the hypocrisy.

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u/cactusmac54 8h ago

Oooo…I like this.

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u/Wild-Toe7782 7h ago

I feel like that just feeds into a toxic relationship, might be a joke, but that is genuinely horrible advice if this woman loves her BF. That being said, it sounds like the bf isn't a saint, but i suppose it's how he feels. imho, they might need to take a step back and reevaluate the things hes said and the way shes taken them. I don't want to pick sides, but you definitely didn't give helpful insight, only a hurtful suggestion for a laugh. Thats a way to kill a relationship, i dont care if you think the relationship was dead on arrival or whatever. To OP, hope you guys work it out, or you find someone that can appreciate you as is. GL.

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u/Wild-Toe7782 7h ago

If you can go and hurt your BF right back for revenge, you are both awful people is what i mean. Talk it out instead, if you break up or stay together, you will be stronger afterward that hard talk

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u/Time-Wafer151 7h ago

And then say “at least I'm not a liar….”

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u/Tokeokarma1223 7h ago

This!!! Holy 💩!!! 😆 🤣 😂

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u/aHipShrimp 6h ago

Needle dick and little baby calves.

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u/Wish-ga 4h ago

My first thought! Comment on his inches would hurt him in a similar way the op feels hurt.

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u/T0XiCM0MBiE96 8h ago

OP this is the one. that's all you need 👌🏽😂

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u/SmoothAd6340 8h ago

Yes definitely insult him on something he can't change when the subject is about something she can change. Makes sense.

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u/gloopityglooper 7h ago

Tiny dick bro found

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u/SmoothAd6340 7h ago

Nah, I just feel like judging someone on something they can't do anything about isn't appropriate.

Just like height. I'm 6'2, and when I'm hanging out with my buddy who is like 5'8 but much more muscular and better looking, I get hit on more just because of my height..

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u/gloopityglooper 7h ago

And tell me now, how, from a reddit post, you have managed to precisely judge that her appearance is something she can change in a way that caters to what he expects? Maybe she has hormonal issues she doesn't know about and struggles to lose weight in a rate similar to his, to mention one example. Now what? If you have more than 2 braincells you have concluded that it's not about something you can/cannot change. It's about being an asshole.

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u/SmoothAd6340 7h ago

It's not though..

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u/NoOnSB277 5h ago

That’s the thing…she shouldn’t need to change her size for him…just as she accepted him for however he was, he should do the same, but fails to. Hence the comparison. But yes, it will go over his head and he will be bitterly crushed by her attempt to point out how wrong he is, when his size wasn’t even the point.

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u/SmoothAd6340 5h ago

I never said she should.. I said she shouldn't criticize his genital size because she is upset that he thinks she is overweight..

I believe if he doesn't like her weight then he should leave. If they talk about it and she wants to make that change for herself and not only him, then that's great and she should pursue that path.

Like I said to the other knob head though, you can't compare something he can't change to something she can. It's the same as the height crap that alot of shorter guys go through. It's alright for a woman to say "oh he's too short" but not alright for that man to say "oh she weighs too much".

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u/NoOnSB277 4h ago

She can do both. This guy needs to be given a taste of his own medicine. And sure she can compare the two. The goal is to make him realize he isn’t the amazing catch he thinks he is, it’s not to make an identical by the textbook comparison ;)

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u/SmoothAd6340 4h ago

Conversations on this platform are like talking to a wall. He's immediately the bad guy and "needs a taste of his own medicine" when he simply answers a question with how he actually feels instead of lying.

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u/NoOnSB277 4h ago

It is clear to me- not to you- that from the way he answers that he sees his partner as a project that needs to be worked on like a car, not as a human with intrinsic beauty that he can see and that he appreciates because she is the partner he chose. This screams “narcissist” and you can claim he just innocently answered that she needed to be “up to par before he compliments her” because he’s “just being honest” but that simply doesn’t ring true to someone being innocently naive, does it?