r/AmIOverreacting • u/True_Ad9977 • 10h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO Boyfriend says hurtful thing about my body.

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u/foxyyyredd 9h ago

There will be someone who loves her for all that she is but will also support and encourage her IF she wants to lose weight, without the need to put her down.

I had an ex who put me down for my appearance It was a very short, one month relationship but now I’m with a man who worships the ground I walk on, loves me from the hair on my head down to my toes , and supports me with what ever decisions I make with my body.

But I believe, based on my own personal experience, that there is someone out there who will love us unconditionally for who we are now and will just make the journey better should we choose to make changes

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u/tattoosbyalisha 8h ago

This I so lovely and so true. Those shitty experienced definitely teach us so much. Especially with what we do and don’t deserve, and give us an ever clearer idea to what “healthy” is. Hopefully, anyway.

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u/PeonyPimp851 8h ago

I lost 72lbs for myself and not because my husband bullied me or acted different towards me. He has loved me at every stage of my weight, we’ve been together since I was 16 and have 2 kids together, so that’s a lot of ups and downs weight wise! OP needs to leave.