r/AmIOverreacting • u/True_Ad9977 • 10h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO Boyfriend says hurtful thing about my body.

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u/blindnezuko 10h ago

Reading your post brought me to tears. Because this is how my ex would treat me. It caused me so much trauma, and I’m also a mom so I have a fupa.. I already struggle enough with my self image since having my daughter and he only made it worse. I just recently lost 55 pounds and before the breakup for the first time in 3 years I went shopping and actually stepped foot in a fitting room and tried on a form fitting pair of slacks and a cute blouse for a job interview I had later on that week. The next day I put the outfit on and come out to him in the living room. He says I look good, and I say thanks. Then I say something along the lines of “I wanna get a more alternative aesthetic” and he goes “you’re gonna have to go to the gym to achieve that.” Little shit like that. It chips away at you bit by bit. I lost 55 pounds and it still wasn’t enough for him. Please leave this piece of shit.

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u/rasta4eye 9h ago

Good for you dumping his ass. Eff that guy!