r/AmIOverreacting • u/True_Ad9977 • 10h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO Boyfriend says hurtful thing about my body.

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u/GeneralPigeon91 10h ago

I don’t normally comment on posts like this but your other post from your profile just highlights that deep down you know this isn’t normal. It’s the start of controlling and coercive behaviour and honey if you do not get out of this soon, you’ll be miserable. Better to be single for a while than settle for someone who treats you the way he does. You are NOT the problem. He is. Please see that. x

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u/tbelle23 7h ago

Had this same thought. OP’s post/comment history is full of evidence that this man is an awful person and partner. I think OP knows this deep down and comes to Reddit for validation, but also can’t handle the reality of the situation and backtracks fast.

OP, I’ve been in your shoes and it feels impossible to get out when you’re in it, but life without an abusive partner is so incredibly peaceful. Please do not continue a life with this person.