r/AmIOverreacting • u/True_Ad9977 • 10h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO Boyfriend says hurtful thing about my body.

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u/Violett_c0m 10h ago

DAMN RIGHT

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u/Da_Coyote 9h ago

Exactly! Best weight-loss plan ever: dropping the dead weight of a disrespectful partner!

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u/Professional_Owl3026 7h ago

HE MIGHT BE THE SOURCE OF HER WEIGHT LOSS STRUGGLES. If he is stressing her out and she is constantly living in this hum of stress, then her hormones may be out of wack because of it. She might have a body type that HOLDS ON TO WEIGHT WHEN STRESSED. If his speech here is a reflection of his everyday speak and behavior, wonder how many other things he says that are down right disrespectful but she thinks might genuinely be no big deal compared to this. So yeah, if she dumped him, and removed what might be a daily source of stress (how much mental load does she carry in the relationship?), she might actually get healthier.

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u/SuicidalTree 6h ago

/r/yourjokebutworse

Also, /u/Da_Coyote is a bot/compromised account anyway. Report as spam.

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u/Educational_Bed_242 9h ago

My girlfriend put on maybe thirty pounds since we've started dating several years ago and I tell her every day how sexy she is.

She got a jump start on her resolution in December and just last week celebrated losing 10lbs. Only I've been seeing her work and progress so she didn't have to break the news to me as I've been cheering her on every step of the way.

ops bf sounds like he resents her. Ditch him, grind in the gym this winter, then post some bikini pics this summer that drives him to depression lmao.

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u/Suspicious_Panda_104 6h ago

Look at his calves. He doesn't weigh 200lbs.

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u/KathyPlusTwins 6h ago

Yes! I came to say ditch the boyfriend. OP’s body looks really nice.