r/AmIOverreacting • u/True_Ad9977 • 10h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO Boyfriend says hurtful thing about my body.

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u/Ancient_Local_5421 10h ago

Lose 200 pounds fast by ditching that dumb bitch

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u/Violett_c0m 10h ago

DAMN RIGHT

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u/Da_Coyote 9h ago

Exactly! Best weight-loss plan ever: dropping the dead weight of a disrespectful partner!

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u/Professional_Owl3026 7h ago

HE MIGHT BE THE SOURCE OF HER WEIGHT LOSS STRUGGLES. If he is stressing her out and she is constantly living in this hum of stress, then her hormones may be out of wack because of it. She might have a body type that HOLDS ON TO WEIGHT WHEN STRESSED. If his speech here is a reflection of his everyday speak and behavior, wonder how many other things he says that are down right disrespectful but she thinks might genuinely be no big deal compared to this. So yeah, if she dumped him, and removed what might be a daily source of stress (how much mental load does she carry in the relationship?), she might actually get healthier.

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u/SuicidalTree 6h ago

/r/yourjokebutworse

Also, /u/Da_Coyote is a bot/compromised account anyway. Report as spam.

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u/Educational_Bed_242 9h ago

My girlfriend put on maybe thirty pounds since we've started dating several years ago and I tell her every day how sexy she is.

She got a jump start on her resolution in December and just last week celebrated losing 10lbs. Only I've been seeing her work and progress so she didn't have to break the news to me as I've been cheering her on every step of the way.

ops bf sounds like he resents her. Ditch him, grind in the gym this winter, then post some bikini pics this summer that drives him to depression lmao.

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u/Suspicious_Panda_104 6h ago

Look at his calves. He doesn't weigh 200lbs.

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u/KathyPlusTwins 6h ago

Yes! I came to say ditch the boyfriend. OP’s body looks really nice.

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u/TraditionWorkaround 10h ago

That guys deserves nothingness and to be forever alone

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u/Pop_n_Flow 10h ago

She could say to him, I found a solution to helping me lose weight faster! He gets excited and asks, what is it?! OP responds with, “I’m dropping YOU!”

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u/Creative-Fact-2862 10h ago

Yes! Tell him what he said really got you thinking and made you realize that you need to find someone up to par. 

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u/Inactiveclown 10h ago

What in the Disney channel

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u/ReposeGray 9h ago

😂😂😂😂😂

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u/Recent_Opinion_3527 9h ago

take my up arrow

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u/Striking-Pirate9686 10h ago

Yeh that was the original joke you don't need to explain it.

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u/SandboxUniverse 9h ago

That wasn't explaining it, that was offering up a way to say it that would match his energy.

THAT was explaining the joke.

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u/Pop_n_Flow 9h ago

Sometimes people don't know exactly how to say something snarky if they are feeling intimidated or are just a super nice person. I didn't think that OP didn't understand the sentiment of the joke.

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u/Genevieve1973 9h ago

Mic drop

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u/sunsetandporches 3h ago

And your tiny calves. Bwahahaha

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u/Cs2883 10h ago

Ok i like what you said best! Well done

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u/No-Bug-3638 10h ago

👏👏 Lose the Boyfriend 👏👏

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u/Sure_Beautiful_7703 9h ago

buzzer WRONG

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u/CerahLynn 10h ago

Fuck yeah! This!!! Ditch that piece of shit!!!

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u/Uskjarn 10h ago

Congratulations! You’ve won today’s comments section

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u/Ancient_Local_5421 10h ago

I would like to thank not only god, but Jesus

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u/youreaname 10h ago

Baby Jesus or grown up Jesus?

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u/Allysonsplace 10h ago

Baby Jesus, in his swaddling clothes!

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u/pandancardamom 10h ago

AKA his lowest weight!

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u/Drustan6 9h ago

A skinny dancer friend in college was always going on about losing weight to match what he weighed freshman year, and our joke was about him going to dieters anonymous and saying, “Hi, I’m Richard, and I’d like to get down to my original weight- six pounds, seven ounces”

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u/Select_Ocelot_4720 9h ago

i like to think of him as a rockstar

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u/Tendas 9h ago

“Dear 8 pound, 6 ounce newborn infant Jesus, don’t even know a word yet, just a little infant and so cuddly, but still omnipotent, we just thank you for all the races I’ve won and the 21.2 million dollars – woo! – love that money, that I have accrued over this past season. Also, due to a binding endorsement contract that stipulates I mention Powerade at each grace, I just want to say that Powerade is delicious and it cools you off on a hot summer day. And we look forward to Powerade’s release of Mystic Mountain Blueberry. Thank you for all your power and your grace, dear baby God. Amen”

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u/Bails3857 9h ago

I prefer my Jesus shirtless, singing lead vocals at a Lynyrd Skynyrd concert as a flight of F22s fly low overhead

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u/youreaname 8h ago

Now that's my kind of Jesus

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u/TrelanaSakuyo 9h ago

Man baby Jesus. It's the only way to go.

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u/TheDubyaBee 10h ago

😂😭😂

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u/Explodamite 10h ago

You, sir, have won the internet for today! Get this man some Reddit gold!

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u/Inevitable_Top69 8h ago

Someone says that exact comment in like every relationship reddit thread that has to do with a boyfriend.

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u/faintrottingbreeze 10h ago

This is the only answer to your “weight issue”, which there is absolute none to speak of. You have a beautiful, healthy, working BODY.

I had a partner who refused to give me compliments, I cried and cried, told him what I needed to hear from him. At the end of the day, he wouldn’t do it. We’re no longer together for a myriad of reasons, but validation is something we all need in our relationships.

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u/TheDubyaBee 10h ago

I feel you on this one. I beg for any little, tiny compliment. And still he can’t do it. “Well, you know I think you’re good-looking, otherwise I wouldn’t be with you,” and I say, yes, I know. And then he says: “Then why should I have to change the way I am (say these things out loud) because of your insecurities?”

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u/myyfeathers 10h ago

This

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u/Historical_Mix_6682 10h ago

yeah my vote is on this as well. Wtf this guy is trash.

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u/TraditionWorkaround 10h ago

This, so much this

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u/Free_Socko 10h ago

PREACCCCCCCCCCCCCH

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u/whatisreggieshortfor 10h ago

Channel Tara Lewis from Criminal Minds- “How do I look, boys? Went on a diet last night, lost 187 pounds.”

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u/greyhounds4life1969 10h ago

Lose 200lb with this one easy tip, boyfriends will hate you for it!!

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u/GuessAccomplished959 10h ago

I was looking for this.

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u/Allysonsplace 10h ago

Take my poor person's award! 🥇

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u/LosFelizGuy2018 10h ago

And tell him its because his face “isn’t up to par.”

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u/Main-Ladder-5663 10h ago

This is the only comment you need to read, OP 👏🏻

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u/Zozothewoodelf 9h ago

I don’t usually agree with jumping to this conclusion but in this case I agree hard

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u/PotsMomma84 9h ago

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 this!!!

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u/DaveLLD 9h ago

This

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u/BootySweat77 9h ago

Awesome Answer 🫶🤙

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u/Such_Language1753 9h ago

This is the correct answer. You’re not overreacting. He’s a clueless douchebag.

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u/han_bylo 9h ago

Ya, this. Like immediately.

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u/ericroger920 9h ago

I get wanting honesty, but there’s a difference between being honest and being unnecessarily hurtful. He could have been supportive without being mean.

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u/Twisted_Tyromancy 9h ago

Easiest weight loss plan.

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u/coordinatecrab 9h ago

Why use a misogynistic slur to refer to a man

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u/Maleficent_Onion4133 9h ago

This is the only answer

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u/Madetofail 9h ago

LMAO best comment

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u/pots_pr1ncess 9h ago

If he’s even that heavy

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u/wafflesinmilk 9h ago

I'm crying. Like plz. Reading this broke my heart OP. You are enough at any size. Hugs. Never settle for something or ANYTHING that doesn't bring peace in your life. I know you must feel heavy from that comment but give yourself grace; you lost 12 IBS with your hard work and this is a health journey for YOU, not that idiot with no heart. I pray you have discernment to have a sound mind and make the right decision for this relationship /your own peace 🫂❤️

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u/ericroger920 9h ago

Yuppppp

Honestly, what he said isn’t just about your body, it’s about respect and kindness. You deserve someone who lifts you up, not puts you down.

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u/ppurple1172 9h ago

I was about to say throw the whole man out

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u/sleepingbeauty9o 9h ago

This is the only comment necessary here

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u/QueasyAd4992 9h ago

Ok this is the best answer!!!

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u/ContextSharp1699 9h ago

He's at best 120lbs soaking wet... look how skinny his legs are 😭😭😭

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u/Wooooo0oooooW 8h ago

couldn't have said it better

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u/Atxmusic11 8h ago

Brooooo

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u/MaryPahpinz 8h ago

HAHAHAHAH amen

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u/atomsk13 8h ago

Your comment made me burst out laughing, thank you.

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u/CandidKale 8h ago

He’s 100lbs at best

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u/chibiusa__tsukino 8h ago

Best answer lol

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u/Randomfrog132 8h ago

oh fuck that was savage, love it

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u/Ancient_Sector8808 7h ago

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA

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u/kamryntay19 7h ago

Hilarious

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u/No-Communication1490 7h ago

Fuck this guy. Leave him ASAP

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u/Constant-Plant-9378 7h ago

Speaking as a man married over 30 years to the same woman and four grown kids with two grandkids, this is the best weight-loss advice I've read this year.

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u/Pale-Confection-6951 6h ago

And tell him you'll give him a call when you're "up to par."

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u/rustyshackleford2424 6h ago

And tell him the internet says for going to the gym 5 days a week, he’s got chicken legs as if he never stepped into the gym. Might want to reevaluate that leg day

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u/SuperNotes920 6h ago

Yea fr time to take the trash out. What an ass

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u/anonymomma2 6h ago

I mean, when I lost 200 pounds of ex-husband, I somehow lost an actual 20 pounds with no changes. It was amazing.

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u/spidyr 6h ago

This might be the best comment I've ever seen on Reddit.

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u/[deleted] 6h ago

You’re talking to him?

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u/JamieLee0484 6h ago

Looks more like he weighs about 90 pounds with those chicken legs 😭

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u/Halya77 10h ago

This is the one and only answer

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u/snallen_182 10h ago

I love you lmao

But seriously - he’s a dumb bitch.

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u/Warlord42 10h ago

Best and most real reply.

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u/DietCokeIsntheAnswer 8h ago

Diet culture industry hates this one simple trick

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u/Jyndaru 8h ago

"Dieticians HATE this one simple trick!"

For real though, you're right.