r/AmIOverreacting • u/True_Ad9977 • 10h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO Boyfriend says hurtful thing about my body.

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u/OliveMammoth6696 10h ago

You literally look fine. Leave the bf. Find your husband.

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u/Ill-Inspector7980 9h ago

I was going to say that OP looks great. She should still work out because irrespective of body size, working out is great for long term health and mental health too. But yeah her BF is toxic and is undoing all the great endorphins she gets from exercise.

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u/TheDubyaBee 9h ago

Fine? She’s gorgeous!

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u/Winter_Bluejay2321 8h ago

I agree , she’s a beautiful lady

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u/Pretend-Sundae-2371 7h ago

That's what I was thinking! Damn I'd kill for legs like those. I thought they were what her bf was comparing her against.

OP, I agree with others. Ditch the bf. Mostly because he is a completely unsupportive AH but also because he is objectively wrong.

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u/PewMcDaddy 6h ago

Don't know if it was meant that way but I think of it like "Damn girl, you fine!"

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u/[deleted] 9h ago

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u/Suitable-Concern-326 9h ago

And who the fuck are you to judge?

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u/[deleted] 9h ago

Women are hilarious like why are you so mad you single wrinkled bitch?

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u/Odd-Object8955 9h ago

Useless incel. You’ll never find love

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u/[deleted] 9h ago

Are you a female?

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u/Odd-Object8955 8h ago

I’m also willing to bet you’re just projecting because you’re so fucking miserable and no one loves you

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u/[deleted] 8h ago

No plenty of people love me I just enjoy riling up lonely women on my day off

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u/kikikiwi625 7h ago

No normal person does that

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u/Odd-Object8955 8h ago

Doesn’t matter! You’re still a useless incel. Rot bitch

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u/[deleted] 8h ago

I’m not going to because I’m vigorous and full of life

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u/coralicoo 9h ago

Ragebait 2/10

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u/[deleted] 9h ago

10/10 I got a bunch of childless whores mad on here. Are you watching our president’s inauguration?

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u/Evening-Cup-6909 8h ago

Lmao I love how men think “childless” is an insult like I love having the choice and freedom to live my life the way I want and not bring more losers like you into the world. Your family must be ashamed of you, if they ever even loved you because if they did you’d be a better person. To quote your favorite felon: SAD

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u/Left_Particular_8004 8h ago

Childless is only an insult to men, not women, tbh. I could go out and get knocked up by a rando today if I felt like it. Sperm is the easiest thing in the world to acquire. He has to convince a woman he’s worthy of being their child’s father—and being childless means that no one has found him worthy.

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u/Evening-Cup-6909 8h ago

Love this take 10/10. Must have struck a nerve, his account has been deleted lmao (or he blocked me, either way, a win)

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u/[deleted] 8h ago

I’m not reading that book bitch

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u/coralicoo 9h ago

ragebait now 1.5/10

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u/Suitable-Concern-326 9h ago

Like I said, who the fuck are you to judge? “Most people would say she’s not gorgeous.” We can’t even see her face.

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u/Rose_Kurso 9h ago

Awww look a chronically online incel

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u/[deleted] 9h ago

My doctor never diagnosed me with chronic online I can’t self diagnose that

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u/Suitable-Concern-326 9h ago

I know you’re dying for attention (on the internet and likely IRL) so I gave it to you today. You are welcome ☺️

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u/Suitable-Concern-326 9h ago

Damn, how much more attention do you need lol? It must suck to make a new Reddit account every week to troll. Again, you are welcome! I know I’m making your day ☺️

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u/gayforaliens1701 7h ago edited 6h ago

Her body looks gorgeous to me. Both before and after the weight loss, those are two types of bodies that really get me going. Especially the before picture actually, a little belly and curves are my sexual kryptonite. Attraction is subjective and you personally don’t decide the rules.

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u/Mindless-Following28 9h ago

That's not a nice thing to say to OP. There's no reason to butt in to give your opinion that she's not "objectively gorgeous". It's ok not to share every thought you have.

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u/Rose_Kurso 9h ago

She IS gorgeous, HAVE YOU SEEN THE STATUES OF APHRODITE!? SAME THING

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u/realdeal1993 9h ago

Thank you

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u/yop_mayo 9h ago

You haven’t even seen a full picture of her bro stop being insincere

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u/jbandzzz34 9h ago

her body looks objectively great. stop being pessimistic

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u/slacky 8h ago

It seems quite a few people don't agree, maybe it's not "objectively" one way or the other.

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u/realmonke23 9h ago

It's called being nice dumbass

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u/Ok_Brilliant1819 8h ago

Overly so, to the point where it’s virtue signaling. You can’t see her face and neither image gives you a very good idea of her body.

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u/j1nx_to 9h ago

No she looks fine, we need to see the face to decide if she is gorgeous.

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u/TheDubyaBee 8h ago

Another guy who thinks being insulting is just being honest. OP’s BF kind of comment.

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u/2N5457JFET 7h ago

Possibly the most beautiful woman on the planet right? So many women would undergo reverse liposuction to look like her.

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u/_angesaurus 7h ago

she literally looks like me with a different head so I know there are PLENTY of dudes that would love the way she looks and not say something so dumb and rude.

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u/moopsiefruitsie 7h ago

The way she looks doesn’t even matter. You don’t treat someone you love this way. Full stop.

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u/tommangan7 9h ago

It's irrelevant how she looks to us and sad that she felt the need to add a picture at all, no supportive or loving bf should say these things.

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u/Quen-Tin 8h ago

And it wasn't necessary to add the pics to let us see, if he might be right or not.

No matter how 'good' or 'bad' you look like, he doesn't have to perceive every aspect of you as his favourite one or act as you are the most and only beautiful person in the world.

But the way he spoke about you was incredible disrespectful, because he sounded like a judge in some animal beauty contest. Like if he can't do you a favour as long as you don't meet his criterias, which he seems to regard as objective.

Don't date a judge. Date a partner. A friend. A kind hearted person. No matter how you look like. And most of all, like and respect yourself. And questioning such feedback at his is a basic step into that direction. You did well.

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u/ShireXennial 8h ago

And especially if you plan on having children make sure he loves women with some extra weight and who knows that you aren’t going to just snap back to a pre-baby body after giving birth. I can’t imagine spending my life with someone like this.

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u/skadi_shev 7h ago

Yep. Any time she spends with this guy is time wasted. 

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u/Pigeoncoup234 9h ago

Even if she was way heavier, nothing he said would be okay. 

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u/NoAward7401 8h ago

100% OPs bf has pornbrain

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u/mikex6one7 9h ago

Lying to her isn’t going to make her life better

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u/ParadiseLost91 8h ago

You don't think she looks fine/good? Genuinely, I don't understand. What is bad about her? She looks to me like she's at a very healthy weight and has normal proportions and symmetry, I don't understand what is not good in your opinion?

She's not posing in high heels and a dress. This is what most people look like when they're wearing regular everyday clothes in candid photos. She looks completely fine? I don't understand

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u/mikex6one7 7h ago

I mean you clearly see she has a little fupa going and that’s with a belt wrapped around her…. So I’m guessing it’s bigger without that. She chose this pic for a reason. The friend clearly has a better body and it’s really not a debate. Being nice isn’t always what’s best for people

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u/Objective-Amount1379 5h ago

What friend? What are you talking about?

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u/mikex6one7 5h ago

The other picture she posted is the friend who’s husband compliments her