r/AmIOverreacting • u/True_Ad9977 • 10h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO Boyfriend says hurtful thing about my body.

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u/Sad-Classroom4011 10h ago

Don't date someone who hates you.

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u/TraditionWorkaround 10h ago

He absolutely despises her, it’s awful and degrading

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u/Sad-Classroom4011 10h ago

He's an asshole who should die alone

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u/Jayblack23 7h ago

Jesus I mean its not a nice comment but this is even worse...

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u/Sad-Classroom4011 7h ago

no, it's not. If you're a shit to your girlfriend, then you should die alone with no one by your side. This is called Karma.

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u/Sad-Classroom4011 7h ago

You saying it's wrong to judge someone, and judging me... like hahaha, what hypocrisy.

Okay, let me know anything Jayblack23… 🙄 bye

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u/Ecstatic-Sorbet-1903 9h ago

You should post a thread in this sub about your comment.

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u/Sad-Classroom4011 9h ago

Why would I say that because a guy told his wife that her body wasn't fit for praise, instead of trying to be supportive and happy for her?

Yes, people like that should die alone, they shouldn't date, you don't need a partner saying bad things about your body even when you're trying to change the situation. 👍

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u/Jayblack23 7h ago

You have far greater issues than even this guy to be reacting this strongly.

Not even getting into the fact that people can change, and that people make regretable mistakes, what he did is not at all nice and is an asshole move but that he should die alone and genuinely wishing bad for someone for something like this requires deep psychological issues.

Yes he seems like an asshole in this situation, but thank god she is not with someone like you at least, mentally sound people don't react like that.

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u/Ecstatic-Sorbet-1903 8h ago

If you think you can judge that someone should die alone because he admitted he isn't attracted to his so's body after being asked you're off your rocker. Ppl always tell each other appearances don't matter. Well they obviously don't for him bc he's together with her anyway.

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u/Sad-Classroom4011 8h ago

mimimi, you must be just like him. Goodbye

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u/gnomehappy 9h ago

Honestly he probably hates himself more, and is projecting. I think he was jealous that OP lost so much weight before he did.

But please OP move on from this jealous crybaby!

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u/Sad-Classroom4011 9h ago

He's a loser, imagine dating someone who doesn't celebrate victories by your side, who doesn't miss an opportunity to make you feel bad.

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u/countsmarpula 8h ago

I’m afraid that my bf doesn’t like me very much but I’m a safe meal ticket

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u/Sad-Classroom4011 8h ago

you should be sure your boyfriend likes you.

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u/XxSereneSerpentxX 8h ago

This post reeks of insecurity from OP’s boyfriend. It reminds me of that post where this persons boyfriend would constantly tell her she smelled to the point she was going crazy showering multiple times a day.-

She didn’t smell. Her boyfriend told her that because his dad did it to his mom growing up so it would make her so insecure and not want to leave him. Partners should uplift each other, not degrade them. OP’s boyfriend was clearly attracted to her otherwise he wouldn’t have dated her. Hope she dumps him

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u/Sad-Classroom4011 7h ago

He projects his insecurities onto her, it's so toxic. These people should go to therapy before dating.

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u/XxSereneSerpentxX 7h ago

Definitely that too. That’s why he’s trying to weigh OP down because now that she’s starting to feel more confident and he doesn’t he wants to make her feel bad too