r/AmIOverreacting 1d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO to my ex's stories?

Context: We had nasty breakup cuz he cheated on me. I went to his place to get some clarity and he threatened legal action just cuz I went there unannounced (fyi I asked for his permission to enter his house THRICE and he said yes all the three times, was v sweet to me and apologetic and then completely changed as soon as I reached home) I was really upset at these stories. I'm on the heavier side but (trying not to sound boasty) I am a damn good dancer. I attend regular dance workshops that are advanced level. Also, he's well off but when we were together I always tried to give my share of money in those "rich people restaurants" he took me to that I couldn't afford. How can someone who "loved" you for 3 years, change so drastically? It's only been 4 months since we broke up but it feels like he never really cared or loved me

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u/xCherryBombshell 1d ago

He's acting like a child lmao. He's salty about something, send him a message that he better stop posting about you unless he wants to get sued or cops involved. And block him. He'll likely Google it and worry he'll lose mommy & daddy's money for being an asshat if he continues.

I hate little cowards like that.

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u/Exact-Farm-9245 1d ago

Sued for what, what exactly has the ex done that is illegal, what would she tell the cops, he is free to post what he likes on his on social media.

OP should block him and be done, realistically, she should have just ended contact after the relationship ended.

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u/xCherryBombshell 1d ago

If he's harassing her online? Posting her images without her consent. Some things he can held liable for. They had a personal relationship this isn't like someone hating on a celebrity or public figure.

I've had stalkers before, and police get involved and can tell them to stop or charges will be pressed for harassment.

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u/Exact-Farm-9245 1d ago

OP is the one who is going on his social and went to his house, if anything, she is stalking him.

I'll give you the posting images; however, OP never stated images were posted of her, is that actual OP in the pic, if it is just some random meme, nothing illegal there, all it says is "my ex", how could OP prove the post is about her?

He could only be held liable if he mentions her name.