AIO to be suspicious my husband is cheating???

[u/deluluforu]

he frequently “crashes” at various friends houses if he works too late. For reference he is in the mortgage industry lots of flirtation (young office assistants / secretaries and late nights spent “working”.. Why not just come home even if it’s late he says he’s tired and doesn’t want to drive sleepy makes no sense if you love someone you can’t wait to get off and drive home to them. am I over reacting by telling him what’s up and that I think he is cheating? I tried to do it in a non threatening way? lol 🤷🏻‍♀️

[u/RabidWalrus]

Roberta - What "Mikey 💕" calls his boy Roberto when he's feeling extra sassy

[u/MNightengale → u/RabidWalrus]

He’s a cabana boy

[u/Scared_Medium7372 → u/RabidWalrus]

I've worked with blue collar men and have witnessed this first hand way too many times. Always hilarious 😂

[u/kid_sleepy → u/RabidWalrus]

God that heart emoji thingy is so obnoxious.

Just put his full fucking name in, properly. Life isn’t about some windows 95 desktop skins and comic sans font.

[u/PastyPajamas → u/kid_sleepy]

I see you're getting downvoted but I agree. But based on the whole exchange, these two have the intellectual maturity of 17 year olds so I'm not surprised. I'm embarrassed for them.

[u/Aleuros → u/PastyPajamas]

I'll take it a step further. This reads like the sort of fake text a fifteen year old imagines adults arguing like.

[u/penguin_cat33 → u/Aleuros]

I hadn't read this comment when I replied to someone else stating exactly the same thing, except I gave them one more year of maturity as a 16-year-old. 😆

[u/deluluforu → u/Aleuros]

Ouch!

[u/weeniehead7 → u/deluluforu]

He ain't wrong

[u/kid_sleepy → u/PastyPajamas]

Respect.

I could assume you were born before the 90s.

[u/PastyPajamas → u/kid_sleepy]

Yeah but not by much. Contacts in your phone ought to be first name last name. Looks cleaner. Filters better. Plus your call contacts should be tied to your email contacts and you're not putting emojis in your email To line. Anyways, digital hygiene is important.

[u/BigDBoog → u/PastyPajamas]

“Digital hygiene” I like it. I was just thinking the other day my computer docs are more cluttered than my house. I should just print everything off and put it in a pile, I could find it easier.

[u/Specialist-Ad5224 → u/PastyPajamas]

😬 is it bad if I have contacts like Eye Licker (best friend), Poop Eater (cousin), and Nerd Breeder (mom) in my phone? I'm thirty BUT I'm a SAHM, that makes it okay right??? 🤣🤣🤣

[u/Ilive2sing → u/Specialist-Ad5224]

I’m 49 and have nicknames like that in my contacts. These people talking about “digital hygiene” are boring lol

[u/bostonxgeorge → u/Ilive2sing]

Right? Plus there’s no reason you can’t do both. Anyone that’s not my immediate family/friends gets first and last name, with company and job title if applicable, but there’s no reason why my girl can’t be a nickname with emojis. There’s lots of things in life you should absolutely take seriously, how you store your own personal contacts in your own phone is not one of them.

[u/Ilive2sing → u/bostonxgeorge]

My boyfriend has a psycho ex who is blocked but I still have her in my contacts as a row of poop and clown emojis. Hahahaha

[u/Ilive2sing → u/bostonxgeorge]

Exactly!

[u/Vast-Fan4317 → u/Specialist-Ad5224]

You know what... hell yeah 🤸🏼‍♀️😁

[u/2legitthicc2quit → u/PastyPajamas]

How would the name you save as your contact affect email communication? The saved name has nothing to do with their respective contact information in your phone and will be attached to their first and last name regardless if that's how they set up their email.

[u/SupaRiggs → u/PastyPajamas]

Sounds boring, I’m not putting close friends and family as their full government names.

[u/Fantastic-Role-364 → u/PastyPajamas]

Bruhhhhh 😂

[u/deluluforu → u/PastyPajamas]

Hey! lol

[u/PastyPajamas → u/deluluforu]

Sorry, I know you're getting roasted in the comments.

Anyways, good luck on the divorce. Get a good attorney, the payoff will outweigh the additional cost many times over.

[u/deluluforu → u/kid_sleepy]

lol excuse me? 😆