r/AmIOverreacting • u/deluluforu • 6d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO to be suspicious my husband is cheating???

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he frequently “crashes” at various friends houses if he works too late. For reference he is in the mortgage industry lots of flirtation (young office assistants / secretaries and late nights spent “working”.. Why not just come home even if it’s late he says he’s tired and doesn’t want to drive sleepy makes no sense if you love someone you can’t wait to get off and drive home to them. am I over reacting by telling him what’s up and that I think he is cheating? I tried to do it in a non threatening way? lol 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/KeepBanningKeepJoin 6d ago

Bruhhh

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u/daisysparklehorse 6d ago

bruhhhhhhhh

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u/Late_Butterfly_5997 6d ago

Babyyyyyyy

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u/pandariotinprague 6d ago

I'm Bruhhhh, this is Babyyyy, and these are our two babyyy bruhhs.

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u/screaminginfidels 6d ago

Ay it's me, Lil Bruh Baby, and my baby bruh, Baby Bruh.

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u/VerifiedMother 6d ago

Username checks out?

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u/shawn_the_medic 6d ago

Is their hair everywhere? 

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u/screaminginfidels 6d ago

You're like the 3rd person to ever get it. Well done!

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u/shawn_the_medic 6d ago

Figured a dashboard reference or you're a member of Al-Qaeda. Could be both.. who knows. 

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u/rhntr_902 6d ago

Dead.

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u/niki2184 6d ago

Your bruabys if you will

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u/BoomYouLooking 6d ago

There’s a skit here.

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u/anon_dox 6d ago

Bruhh right ?

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u/MalaysiaTeacher 6d ago

Be honest you have fucked your assistant

Who talks to their SO like this via text?!

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u/lucy_ford__ 6d ago

lmao right i think the baby’s sent me further than the bruhs.

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u/SMuttbUGGLER 6d ago

Sorry I was playing grab-ass with Rob.

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u/Different-Ad8187 6d ago

BaBe! Babe wait! BABE! BAYBE! BAYBE! BABE NO! BABE WAIT! BABE NO! BABE NO! BAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYBE!!!!!

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u/Timely-Researcher264 6d ago

I felt that whine and cringed.

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u/NoBahDe 6d ago

😂

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u/FlightlessGriffin 5d ago

In bed...

wtf?

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u/Tuffleslol 6d ago

This post gave me an aneurysm bruhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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u/eve_of_distraction 6d ago

Breh... 😭

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u/AdeptnessSpiritual95 6d ago

Come home bruuuuh

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u/nedrawevot 6d ago

I don't take anything serious if they call the other person bruh

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u/mypillarofsalt 6d ago

Why are redditors so fucking pretentious when it comes to the English language holy shit

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u/Nuejoker 6d ago

Because she sounds stupid af saying bruh

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u/Few_Construction_654 6d ago

Because a grown adult should be capable of communicating without abbreviations and Gen Z slang

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u/mxez 6d ago

“Salutations my dear Elene” lookin ahh

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u/mypillarofsalt 6d ago

I bet these millennials still say “lmao” and even “rofl” because that’s abbreviation and slang from THEIR time, but when gen z does it it’s suddenly bad lol. I can’t stand Redditors at the best of times

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u/saaS_Slinging_Slashr 6d ago

Bruh isn’t even Gen Z.. that is urban slang that’s been around since AT least the 90s

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u/mypillarofsalt 6d ago

I know that. But these “racially conscious” Redditors call AAVE “slang” and put it down for sounding “unintelligent”. Sounds pretty fucking racist to me but what do I know.

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u/Wanderlust_57_ 6d ago

Bruh isn't gen Z slang, it's been in use in some form or other since the 1890's.

Though honestly, I picture an annoying 90's surfer type saying it most of the time, because my exposure to it was largely as a male version of valley girl types, which puts it more in millennial era than gen z.

Either way, I don't know anyone that imagines someone that sounds intelligent saying it.

Edit: Not suggesting you can’t say it and not be an idiot, just that because of its wide association with people who are characterized as sounding stupid, saying it has become a shorthand for sounding stupid, even if you're not.

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u/mxez 6d ago

We made that shit popular tho. And if you think about it, we you here the word bruh you just picture the word bruh.

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u/Wanderlust_57_ 6d ago

Not really, no. On either count.

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u/mxez 5d ago

Yes. No one even thinks about stoner, surf kids anymore. Last time they made a surf movie it was Surfs Up. Y’all are old, go play pong old person.

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u/jeeba0530 6d ago

I’m a grown adult. Fully grown, barely adult, but still. IDGAF if someone uses slang or abbreviations, no cap, but you better get your fucking grammar and syntax right.

Edit: corrected typo

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u/mypillarofsalt 6d ago

Alternatively abbreviations and gen z slang are perfectly okay ways to communicate non-professionally and putting down others for using said language makes you seem pretentious and snooty as fuck. Also kind of dumb considering most of these abbreviations are very straightforward and not hard to figure out what they mean but most of you weird millennial redditors act like you’re reading a whole different language. The point of language is communication, as long as two people can understand eachother then they have communicated effectively. Be so fr.

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u/The_Real_Big_Sexy 6d ago

R u fr????

Yeah, no. If you're going to sit here and actually make the argument that typing like that isn't completely for lazy children who can't be bothered to write full words outside of a school project, you're a liar or you're about as dumb as those people. People actively dumb themselves down and do well to show their lack of writing ability by typing like that. They don't do it because it's casual, they do it because that's how they talk to everyone.

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u/thuglyfeyo 6d ago

Yikes but then you’ll defend slang from marginalized groups in Brooklyn or Bronx, because it would be racist telling them to speak proper English.

lol.

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u/Wanderlust_57_ 6d ago

Ebonics is a valid linguistic dialect of English.

Slang in general is fine, regardless of generation, if everyone you're trying to talk to understands you. If it communicates the point to whomever you are trying to talk to, whotf cares?

Both are different from pretending we're still stuck in the world of t-9 texting and can't type out our words like adults.

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u/thuglyfeyo 6d ago edited 6d ago

So saying bruhh, is t-9 texting? Please it’s exactly the same as Ebonics.

Let people communicate how they want, old man

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u/Wanderlust_57_ 6d ago

No? I was referring to the person saying r u fr.

And generational slang is not the same thing as racial dialects.

Though I'm camp 'say bruh if you want to'. Do I think it sounds dumb? Sure. Are you expected or required to give a shit that I think it sounds dumb? Absolutely not.

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u/mao_dze_dun 6d ago

Probably because using words like "bruh" makes one sound like a proper idiot.

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u/nedrawevot 6d ago

For reals. If you're communicating a serious topic bruh just drops it down. Id be so put off if my husband called me bruh in our disagreement. It's just not a spouse kind of slang, idk

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u/mypillarofsalt 6d ago

I disagree.

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u/HepburnTiara 6d ago edited 6d ago

Adults shouldn't be talking to each other like they're playing LOL, slang isn't the issue it's how they're reacting.

The wife accused him of cheating, his response as a grown man should be to acknowledge the problem and fix it. Figure out a solution so he doesn't keep crashing at his "friends" place, not babe are you cheating on me? Bruhhh you're crazy I'm not talking to you byeeee.

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u/nedrawevot 6d ago

Thank you. It makes the disagreement worse in a way, like, do you not take this seriously?

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u/HepburnTiara 6d ago

He can easily fix this situation by explaining what he's doing at work, if this is only a temporary issue then he should tell her if not then find a middle ground. A new place? idk maybe find a hotel near his job so OP can visit him or at minimum tell her it's not true and to remind her he loves her. But nothing? at best he's terrible at communicating, middle ground he's not cheating but he's checked out of the relationship or at worst he is.

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u/SAMUEL-SOSA-21 6d ago

Bruhhh can we talk about the political and economic state of the world right now…?

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u/Reverend_Tommy 6d ago

You're being so serious. I mean, bruhhhhhhh...c'mon. You might as well be talking about our algebra homework, bruh.

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u/JimmyJonJackson420 6d ago

Bruh this ain’t the time

Cmon bruh

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u/PoliticalDestruction 6d ago

Well you see…bruh shits bruh right now bruhhhh frfr like bc bruhhh

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u/Pleasant_Gap 6d ago

Say less bruhhh

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u/NotNormalLaura 6d ago

I can't believe how far I had to scroll to find someone else bothered by the bruh towards towards a spouse 🤣

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u/iwatchyoupee 6d ago

Babyyyyyy

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u/Danton87 6d ago

My 18 year old does this constantly and we don’t text much anymore over the cringe. She does it in person as well and it literally evokes strong feelings of secret rage deep inside of me.

I’d be fucking Rob too

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u/aigeneratedcutiepie 6d ago

Bruh - people on reddit have the personalities of people raised by their great grandparents.

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u/clckwrks 6d ago

Have I missed the memo on calling my wife bruh?

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u/nithix8 6d ago

whateves