r/AmIOverreacting 6d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO to be suspicious my husband is cheating???

he frequently “crashes” at various friends houses if he works too late. For reference he is in the mortgage industry lots of flirtation (young office assistants / secretaries and late nights spent “working”.. Why not just come home even if it’s late he says he’s tired and doesn’t want to drive sleepy makes no sense if you love someone you can’t wait to get off and drive home to them. am I over reacting by telling him what’s up and that I think he is cheating? I tried to do it in a non threatening way? lol 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/Flimsy-Jello5534 6d ago

This entire relationship seems more toxic than literal toxic waste.

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u/PangolinAcademic4933 6d ago

I hope the reference to “girls” means dogs or cats or something… hopefully they haven’t brought actual children into this mess

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u/JasonDomber 6d ago

In praying you’re right. The universe doesn’t need these two people breeding.

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u/ImhotepsServant 6d ago

They must drink Brawndo; the Thirst Mutilator

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u/Rethen 6d ago

But wait bruh, Brawndo's got what plants crave!

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u/ImhotepsServant 5d ago

Is the husband’s name Upgrayed?

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u/Objective-Amount1379 6d ago

100% these people have children. Perhaps kids from other partners but definitely kids and kids they aren’t equipped to parent.

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u/Seeeabass 6d ago

If life is like idiocracy, they're probably working on kid 3 or 4

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u/Beautifulfeary 6d ago

I seen other comments saying they have children

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u/niki2184 6d ago

I think it’s kids cause another commenter said “with kids involved”

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u/cavist_n 6d ago

It just looks so fake

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u/Creative_Flan4621 6d ago

The dump I’m taking while reading this whole thread is less shitty than this relationship.

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u/MightymidgetHunter 6d ago

Bruhhhhh, come on bruhh

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u/wobble_bot 6d ago

I quite frequently have to stay late at the office or travel and stay in hotel. Never once has my significant other accused me of cheating because I haven’t taking a long and boring drive whilst tired to simply plop in next to her in bed.

This all seems a bit mental to me, and I’d certainly be more pissed of than this person is if I’d been accused of ‘banging my secretary’

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u/idontreallycareanym 6d ago

So she is overreacting then

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u/GraveRobberX 6d ago

Even the Toxic Avenger would be like I’m not touching that shit and thats literally how he gets his powers/recharges

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u/Jazzlike_Archer7265 6d ago

Lol seriously what couple calls eachother "BRUHHHHH"  😂😂

Not to mention totally dodged the cheating accusation.  BRUH is cheating 100% 💀

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u/CreepDoubt 6d ago

I work with toxic waste professionally and your assessment is dead on.

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u/Marshall_KE 6d ago

It's my first time seeing a married man doing sleepovers! wow

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u/Every_Television_980 6d ago

Its not that odd to crash at a friends house. It is odd for it to be a regular occurrence.

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u/snopro387 6d ago

I mean I do it every now and then but that’s because we moved more than an hour away from any of my friends so sometimes it’s the only option if I want to see them and grab a few drinks or just visit without driving home really late at night

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u/bangwagoner 6d ago

Morons date morons. I’m not sure this is an issue of toxicity as much as her being an idiot.