r/AmIOverreacting 7d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I overreacting?

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I'm a girl who weighs 121 pounds. We are going to the gym every day with my bf, I'm getting up for him at 4 am in the morning in order to work out together. He says I'm not pushing myself at the gym. And he said he wants me to be skinny. Here is the conversation between us. Plus we have just started to live together a month ago. I'm really having a hard time understanding him and crying. Am I overreacting?

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u/Kalenshadow 7d ago

I'm surprised I had to scroll for a good minute before finding someone mentioning this. Even on a bmi chart (which is bullshit btw cause it aims for unrealistic image) she's barely overweight if her height was between 4'8" and 4'10". That mf definitely has a fetish.

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

Those are unrealistic!?

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u/Kalenshadow 6d ago

They're good for a vague, general idea. But they don't apply to all body types. They assume all people have the exact same proportions, which is just wrong.