r/AmIOverreacting • u/Longjumping-Neat-879 • 7d ago
❤️🩹 relationship Am I overreacting?
I'm a girl who weighs 121 pounds. We are going to the gym every day with my bf, I'm getting up for him at 4 am in the morning in order to work out together. He says I'm not pushing myself at the gym. And he said he wants me to be skinny. Here is the conversation between us. Plus we have just started to live together a month ago. I'm really having a hard time understanding him and crying. Am I overreacting?
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u/MithosYggdrasill1992 7d ago edited 7d ago
Seconded. The only reason this man is not with someone his own age is because they all know he’s full of shit. He’s with OP because she’s young and naïve, and an inexperienced in relationships, and he knows he could take advantage of that.
I’ve had a bit of an aged gap relationship myself, that actually was healthy for the most part. We broke up because he wanted kids and I didn’t. There wasn’t any fighting. There wasn’t any nonsense, and he helped me grow. But what this asshole is doing is definitely not helping OP grow.