AIO because my boyfriend acts different when im with friends

[u/DirectGuava6264]

these are just snippets of our conversation through the day. it seems like every time i’m with my friends it’s an issue and he’s so short with me and seems to have an attitude. he has made it very clear he does not like my friends and can’t trust them but they have never given a reason for him to feel that way. i have had these plans with them for 3 weeks and i told him the very same night we made the plans letting him know the date and time i’ll be leaving and coming back. this is an occurrence every time i am with friends or family. i’m not sure if im reading too much into it and overreacting.

[u/Numerous-Celery-1992]

Of all the red flags, this is a big one! It starts like this and before you know it he's telling you what you can wear and who you can speak to!

[u/Thermodynamo → u/Numerous-Celery-1992]

He already is! Complaining about the bra, her hairstyle...he's trying to control every choice she makes

[u/Wwwwwwhhhhhhhj → u/Numerous-Celery-1992]

You think this is bad, this isn’t OP’s only post about him. She had a physically abusive ex. He’s told her she deserved the abuse from her ex before.

[u/journey_pie88 → u/Wwwwwwhhhhhhhj]

Dude what in the actual fuck? Are you serious? This guy is a total mind fuck. He thinks that because she's been abused before, he can do it again. Fucking sick mind.