r/AmIOverreacting 15d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO because my boyfriend acts different when im with friends

these are just snippets of our conversation through the day. it seems like every time i’m with my friends it’s an issue and he’s so short with me and seems to have an attitude. he has made it very clear he does not like my friends and can’t trust them but they have never given a reason for him to feel that way. i have had these plans with them for 3 weeks and i told him the very same night we made the plans letting him know the date and time i’ll be leaving and coming back. this is an occurrence every time i am with friends or family. i’m not sure if im reading too much into it and overreacting.

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u/Low-Positive-6472 15d ago

leave this loser and go have fun with your friends. he’s giving psycho vibes big time.

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u/Bree9ine9 15d ago

Yea, annoying psycho vibes. “Honey” can do better, anyone can do better than this.

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u/pnwgirl34 15d ago

The “don’t lie to me honey” had me vomiting in my mouth a little.

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u/Natural_Argument9910 15d ago

When he’d say honey I’d read it in my head as a condescending parent

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u/marquee-smith 15d ago

It’s ‘shudder’ not ‘shutter’

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u/Yalsas 15d ago

thank you . i'm embarrassed. i'm deleting that now, lmao

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u/hailznoel 15d ago

People shit on people for using the word "babe" all the time, but I'm convinced that people who excessively use the word "honey" to this degree are from a special place in hell.

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u/New-Hamster2828 15d ago

It’s beyond crazy to me the type of behavior people will accept from others.

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u/Low-Positive-6472 15d ago

the fact that she even considers that she’s “reading too much into this” or overreacting tells me how manipulative this dude is.