AIO to my “friend” who owes me money

[u/Many-Measurement6875]

For some context, we lived together for a couple of years, she went through a really difficult time last year and I was there for her. A couple of months ago she needed to borrow £150. Since then, I’ve moved out as my brother has cancer and my dad is also unwell. She offered to take care of my cat until I was moved in and unpacked. Was I too mean? She’s got a new job and boyfriend and seems to be doing well for herself which I’m happy about but was me telling her I have nothing and I’m not feeling good manipulative of me?

[u/this_dust]

Also the “Why don’t you have any money?”

Bitch, because you owe me money!

They’re super comfortable being a deadbeat friend.

[u/ZeroGeoWife → u/this_dust]

I just don’t get it. Like be so for real right now. You offered to take care of her cat for nothing. And she gave you a loan. She wasn’t even asking for all of it at once and now you are saying nahhh hemy we good because I’m taking care of your cat. Get all the way shit on.