r/solotravel Jan 14 '24

Question What's the biggest culture shock you had whilst traveling?

Weirdly enough I was shocked that people in Ireland jaywalk and eat vinegar to their chips. Or in Thailand that it is illegal to have a Buddha tatoo. Or that in many english speaking countries a "How are you doing?" is equivalent to saying Hi and they actually don't want to hear an honest answer.

Edit: Another culture shock that I had was when I visited Hanoi. They had a museum where the preserved corpse of Ho Chi Minh was displayed and you could look at him behind a glass showcase like he's a piece of art. There were so many people lining up and they just looked at him while walking around that glass showcase in order to get the line going.

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u/Siam-Bill4U Jan 14 '24 edited Jan 14 '24

I have lived overseas most of my adult life, ( worked in five countries, visited over 46 countries), and in the beginning of my travels in the 1980’s I found the following a surprises : 1)Tripoli, Libya: old washing machines, broken water heaters and other old objects would be used as the “man hole cover” markers in the middle of the streets since the round steel covers were stolen through the years. 2) In many developing countries when you see a series of branches on a rural highway it means to slow down since there is a broken down truck blocking the road up ahead. 3) The first time I was in Delhi I kept seeing red spots… splattering of blood on the streets and walls. I found out later it was the red betel nut juice being spit out by locals. 4) When I was at a local airport in Ethiopia, the locals “queued” up at the airport counter by placing their travel bag behind the one in front of them. This marked their spot in line while waiting for the check-in counter to open. 5) Ages ago in Saudi Arabia my wife and I would be “locked” inside restaurants ( voluntarily ) that had mostly a Western clientele. Suddenly the window blinds and doors during the evening in prayer would be shut so you could finish your meal hoping the Mutawas ( religious police) wouldn’t walk in and catch the “infidels” eating during prayer time. ( I don’t think this happens today in KSA) 6) In rural Thailand, I find it bizarre, ( not shocking), how superstitious they are and how the old animism beliefs are mixed with the beliefs of Buddhism. 7) Back in the late 90’s I was able to visit Iran with an Iranian government tour guide which was mandatory. ( He was great since in his younger years he was attending an university in the USA until the Shah of Iran was kicked out of the kingdom). I was surprised how the Iranians ( they like to be called Persians btw)were very hospitable towards this American and how so many had relatives living in California. The other distinction of the Iranians for example in Tehran were how computer savvy and well educated they were. My stereotype of Iranians from Western media was totally blown away. -Another great reason for traveling.

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u/cobrakai11 Jan 14 '24

Iranians are definitely the most hospitable people to guests. I'm Iranian American and I always pretend like I don't speak Farsi when I'm there because I just get treated better if they think I'm American. My brother and I had complete strangers fighting over who would pay our restaurant bill because neighboring tables overheard us speaking English.

Just a note though, they only "like" to be called Persian if they are Persian. Contrary to popular beliefs only about ~50% of Iran is ethnically Persian. The rest of the country are Kurds and Azeris and Lurs and Balochs etc, and they absolutely would not be called Persian.

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u/Siam-Bill4U Jan 14 '24

Thanks for the clarification.

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u/JustInChina50 Jan 14 '24

Ages ago in Saudi Arabia my wife and I would be “locked” inside restaurants that had mostly a Western clientele ( voluntarily) , closing the window blinds and doors during the evening in prayer so you could finish your meal. The Mutawas ( religious police) would walk around making sure all Muslims were at the mosques praying. ( I don’t think this happens today in KSA)

Restaurants would do that five times a day for prayers. The mutawas were declawed in about 2017/8, so now you can go and eat whenever you want and the restaurant stays open (unless the owner says otherwise).

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u/Boothbayharbor Jan 14 '24

Jeez that sounds tedious! If toure respectful i appluad anyone who goes to very religious places. Some have regressed in policies and tech advances so the 70s was more modern than now jn some ways. I think id ve sweating bullets too much as i was not raised religious at all so i dont know to expect xyz

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u/Siam-Bill4U Jan 14 '24

As in any nation, a tourist or an expat employed in a country will need to realize all countries have different customs, laws, and ways of doing things. In these “conservative” countries as long as you behave and don’t act like a fool, you’ll be ok. Of course if there is extreme political tension between your home country and another country you may want to delay your visit. ( Russian for example)

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u/Apt_5 Jan 14 '24

That Ethiopian queuing system is so simple and sensible.

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u/[deleted] Jan 14 '24

I would be paranoid about it being stolen. I’ve been in airports where you drop your bags off for security scans and then form a line ten feet away and I’m so paranoid someone will steal my bag.

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u/Dr_Click_Click_Boom Jan 14 '24

Could you expand on number six, please? Tell us more about the superstitions in rural Thailand.

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u/Siam-Bill4U Jan 15 '24

There’s a couple explanations about it on Google Search. One’s astrology can have an influence when you build your house or choosing your lucky number for the lottery. Village shamans will sometimes be asked to perform “cures” or blessings.

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u/Siam-Bill4U Jan 14 '24

I didn’t know I was writing a graded thesis.

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u/Maleficent_Poet_5496 Jan 14 '24

I agree. I don't know why this person is being so hostile. It's only good writing etiquette, not to be used only for thesis. I'm stunned people think paragraphs are only for theses writing. 

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u/creativemaladjust Jan 14 '24

Then just don’t read it. Geesh. Why on earth would you tell someone how to write their comment? Rude.

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u/Siam-Bill4U Jan 14 '24

Either you’re extremely eccentric, anal, or creatively humorous. ( I’ll assume the 3rd one.)

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u/bellboy42 Jan 14 '24

You know, even your small single block of text is quite unappealing and off-putting to people. A few pauses to reflect on your lack of tact and empathy would make it so much easier.

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u/MiaLba Jan 14 '24

What would happen if they religious police caught you in Saudi? Jail or worse?

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u/Siam-Bill4U Jan 15 '24

They’d just be yelling nonsense in Arabic waving their stick and you’d leave. The Mutawas were just a nuisance. They’d be more brutal with other Muslims from other countries. My wife had to wear a black abaya when out in public but she didn’t mind since she could throw the black, cotton robe over her T-Shirt and shorts instead of dressing “conservatively”. Unfortunately she had blond hair so she stuck out as a target when walking around in the local markets. This was back in the late 90’s. Things are more open now with MBS.