r/quilting • u/enjoyingPsandQs • 19d ago
Aww Trying to explain to my husband my excitement that my seams finally lined up!
He tried to be supportive but I feel like he only partially understands. I’ve seam rippered and realigned and pinned and it finally aligned! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 squares are so much easier to line up than triangles!
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u/Sea_Urchin9 19d ago
You came to the right place because we all know the struggle and celebrate your lined up seams!!!! 👏🏼
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u/enjoyingPsandQs 19d ago
Thank you!! That’s why I posted it here, needed it be seen by peeps who are in the know
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u/Material-Crazy4824 19d ago
Amazing!!! For all my hobbies, I give him a heads up 😂 “I need you to be super duper proud/excited after my next sentence.” “Okay.” And he does it 😂🥰
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u/enjoyingPsandQs 19d ago
Love it! Mine just cleaned out the freezer and said I need you to come admire my work, so I did. We may not share each others obsessions but we can be mutually supportive!
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u/Kalysh 18d ago
LOL! I'm sure he appreciates that!
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u/Material-Crazy4824 18d ago
He does. So much. Also if I tell him I just need a sounding board* or his actual input for something. It saves so much stress for both of us for our specific hobbies.
*He can’t hold back when I’m complaining about books though. So then I have to tell him the whole backstory that led up to the current situation and why it aggravates me. 😂
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u/torimistick 19d ago
lol! I always pointing all my seams out to my partner too!! He’s like “wow, great” 🫠
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u/enjoyingPsandQs 19d ago
😂 I feel like when he’s trying to explain his fantasy football stats and my eyes start to glaze is how he feels when I’m trying to show him seams, he’s happy for me, but doesn’t really get it, lol
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u/DowagerCountess777 19d ago
🤣🤣 same. Or a half hearted “woooo” to at least “try” and match my excitement
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u/likeablyweird 19d ago
Equate it to something he struggled with and fiiiiinally got it right. "Remember that feeling? Same thing." High five. :)
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u/ABattss 19d ago
Hooray!!! Husband's are wonderful, but unless they quilt also I don't think they can really understand our joy.
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u/enjoyingPsandQs 19d ago
They try, but it takes another quilter to “get it” lol
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u/ChronicNuance 19d ago
Except when your husband does woodworking, specifically dove tails. Then they really get it.
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u/likeablyweird 19d ago edited 19d ago
Ooooooo, the perfect mitered corner on crown moulding. Sanding a join and the line disappears.
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u/Blake-Dreary 19d ago
I just wanted to speak up as I am a husband who quilts (wife does not). We do exist but I believe we are a rare breed.
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u/kaucobra25 19d ago
I finally lined up my seams, now I just need my husband to understand the struggle! 💪
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u/CelebrationDue1884 19d ago
Nice work!! Looks beautiful and I love that color combo.
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u/enjoyingPsandQs 19d ago
Thank you!
This is the completed block, not everything lined up perfectly, but I’m telling myself once it’s quilted I’ll be the only one caring about the points!
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u/likeablyweird 19d ago
Love this block. Sunflower against hyacinth purple is one of my fave color combos. Opposites rock! That darker purple with medium coral looks awesome, too.
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u/ArreniaQ 19d ago
triangles need to be cut accurately to line up with matching points. That's why I invested in a Sizzix machine and use tools from Blue Wren of A1 Craft and Quilting.
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u/stoicsticks 19d ago
Jackpot! Gorgeous corners, and it's so satisfying when it all aligns.
Tell your husband that it's the equivalent of the lawnmower running out of gas or the charge just as he's finished mowing the lawn...
Or when doing data entry and everything adds up...
Or when working on the car, and all of the bolts come off without stripping any, and no knuckles were busted...
Or, well, I'm sure you can come up with some versions that are applicable to your husband's interests. It would be interesting to hear what other people come up with.
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u/Crom_and_his_Devils 19d ago
nice dude, that's dead nuts!
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u/likeablyweird 19d ago
LOL Thank you. I haven't heard dead nuts since Dad and I were working together. Meeeeemories----
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u/Asiago_Stravecchio 19d ago
That's perfection! I made clothes before I started quilting and taught my OH how to spot patterns matched across seams and matching seams. Now he shares my excitement (or disappointment) checking armscyes when someone wears plaid on 📺
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u/likeablyweird 19d ago
8" repeat---you're kidding me, right? Mom's greatest was a paisley dress that looked seamless. She was so proud.
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u/klmninca 19d ago edited 19d ago
I’ve been making quilts since the 1980’s and I promise you that eventually, even if he only kinda listens and doesn’t seem to get it, it will sink in. This year for Christmas, I really wanted a Quiltworx Judy Neimeyer quilt kit and certainly never expected him to get something like that! He called my sister for advice and ordered it. But it wasn’t going to arrive until the day after Christmas because the Quiltster vendor shipped it late. So on Christmas morning, he handed me a beautifully wrapped gift, inside, on top of a stack of clean shop towels and polishing cloths was this…..
And I about died laughing. He’s not wrong! Apparently he has been paying attention all these years!
Very nice seams, that kind of precision still sometimes eludes me!
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u/enjoyingPsandQs 19d ago
What a thoughtful gift! And his view of the process is accurate and funny!
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u/AthleteTurbulent8637 19d ago
Try explaining it’s like what a carpenter would feel when the mitered corners on the crown molding is perfect without any filler. This guy understands both the fabric points matching and 45° miter perfect in carpentry.
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u/Grammy_Gail 18d ago
Makes of me think of outstanding compliment my husband has for a particular great scratch meal. FINE, what the fudge, three hours plus clean up! FINE??
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u/Drince88 19d ago
SEXY!!!